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writes:Ok, my boyfriend keeps asking me to have anal sex with him. I have never taken it up the butt and am not sure if it will hurt or what i am supposed to do. Can you help me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): Best position, you on your belly. Ideally, he needs to be stimulating your G-stop through the wall of your vigina. The right angle will work wonders on you! I'd suggest trying it, and learning together. Read up, tehre are several web sites that will tell you the facts and how to built up to it. it will take TIME and sensitivity on his part. He needs to understand that he can cause you real pain, but that if he's gental, loving and listens, then you two could add a major entry into your sexual menu.If you try it and don't like it you are NOT obligated to do it again... so please don't think that it's a "did it once, got to do it every week" kind of thing.Once or twice a month might be enough. My first GF into anal had me doing her once or twice a day for several weeks, once she got the hang of it, she loved it and wanted it often. It was nice!
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (23 July 2009):
Don't do it if you're not excited about it... it need NOT hurt, if you take your time, loosen up, use lots (tons) of lube and he's gental and considerate. Many women love it, many HATE it... some come like fountains! It's all about being comfortalbe and trusting your partner.
Personally I love it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhow should i go about taking it? what position is the most comfortable?
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (14 July 2009):
 I would recomend watching some videos on it you can find plenty online just to see the basics if he takes his time and your prepared it shouldnt be to bad some girls really enjoy it. From a male perspective i would say if your really into this guy go for it it wont kill you or damage you over time just tell him to be gentle if it hurts to mutch tell him to stop its probably just a fantasy of his and he wants to see how far you will go for him plus you cant get pregnant from anal
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reader, natasia  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 I seriously recommend you say no, because if you do it once, he will want to add it as a permanent feature to your sexual repetoire, and over time you will be physically damaged by it.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (13 July 2009):
 i have heard it does hurt from some girls i know who've done it and they don't recommend it.
but as sammi says you can use a lube to make it easier for you.
if you don't want to do it just tell your boyfriend you don't want too if he loves you he'll understand.
Hope this helps
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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