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writes:I would just like to know if any of you guys told your parents that you had either lost your virginity or were thinking of losing it? And how did they react to it? If you didn't tell them, do you feel guilty at all? Thanks xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): Yeah my parents dont no, my mum would probebly freak out and make me stop seeing him sooooo its really down to how comfortable your parents are to the idea of you and sex.
I wish I had someone to talk to about it though... Im thinking of telling my best friend. But yeah enjoy be-safe and try finding suport from family or friends :)
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reader, Lunaa  +, writes (14 July 2009):
 I never felt guilty about it and me and my mother were never very close but i did talk to my aunt about everything, me and my aunt are still very close and its always nice knowing i have someone to talk to about that kind of thing. It can be very stressful going through that without someone you know you can talk to weather its your mom, your aunt, or your friends mom. Just be sure you have someone to talk to and be safe if your going to have sex
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (14 July 2009):
 Well if your the ages your say your between then your an adult and can do what you want you dont have to talk to your parents about sex if you dont want to secondly they probably assume your allready doing it,or want to do a and are naturally interested in it. i would say start out asking them when there first time was just make small talk it shouldnt be a big deal your a young woman they expect you to be intereted in the opposite sex my mother told me all about the birds and bees at a young age before i was 7 atleast so i grew up knowing alot of things she even told me that if i had sex and got a girl pregnant i should be a responsible father. at your age its not really necessary to dicuss sex with your parents and you shouldnt feel guilty about its your business
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reader, ChristianGirl +, writes (14 July 2009):
Hay, please dont be put off by my religion. I didnt tell my parents im 17 and they've not figured anything out in a year. its good your thinking about it though consider everything before rushing into anything. i dont feel gulity about not telling them but i do regret my decision to sleep with my botfriend so early in the relationship if i had known what he was like then i would never have put myself through that. if you feel you should talk to your parents then i would advise sitting down with them and explain to them you are trying to be mature and let them know how your feeling that you think youre ready and you dont wish to go behind there backs. of course you must think about it properly dont let yourself get presurised into anything. if you dont feel your ready then wait. I hope i could be some help. good luck x
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