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writes:oh oh now my boyfriend wants a 3 some with another woman just the one off mind to see if it will help him get hard but i dont know how to go about it please help im willing for him to try this just to keep him happy thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): I did the threesome thing for my boyfriend of four years to make him happy and now he wants to be with other women on his own but have me to come home to. So of course we broke up but we have a child together and i love this man. He said its my fault for opening the door. I wouldnt recommend it unless he is someone your not serious about cause everygirl i met stories sound just like mine in the end and you will be the one hurt in the end cause he wont stop and if you wont do it again he'll just find two that will and if you continue doing it he will still cheat with other women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): ill be honest with you, he will flop at the crucial moment, and not be able to satisfy you or your female friend, i think he needs to find out why he cant get a hard on, never mind try and get it up for two of you
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): These things are often best left as a fantasy. You must be into it yourself,otherwise this is a recipe for disaster. I think this isnt a cure for not keeping an erection. Do you not turn him on? Well follow it through and thats how you will end up feeling.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 Unless it is something both of you want and you are sure you can deal with all the emotions that will be involved, don't do it.
For instance, he has an erection problem? Say he gets hard with her, how will you feel then? How will he feel if she gives you the best or even first orgasm ever?
Threesomes are messy. If you got enough doubts to ask here, they are not for you.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 Threesomes are great fun but they are just that, they represent sex at its most fun and meaningless. I think that doing it in the context of introducing a third party into an existing relationship is fraught with risk and should be avoided. There is a risk also for guys that it spoils you a little for regular 1 on 1 sex.
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reader, TheAgonyAunt +, writes (13 July 2009):
 I wouldn't do this. He should be satisfied enough with your relationship if he really loves you and not to want to have a threesome with another woman.I would say this is bad news and stay well clear of doing it, you probably will regret it.But ONLY ever do it if your happy to do it not because you want to keep your partner happy. Its not worth it ok?Hope you take my advice and I hope this helps.:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): There's nothing wrong in keeping him happy,but this goes a bit far. If u are turned on by it yes,but its got to be for both of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): Don't do it because he might leave u for one of them tell him u not that type of girl unless u like stuff like that
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): If your bf is having trouble maintaining his erections then he needs to visit his dr to find out what is wrong. Having a 3-some will not solve anything, it will infact make things worse.
Remember only do something if you really want to do it, it is your body and dont do 3-somes just to please someone else, cos the chances are that he is going to be more turned on by the other person and you will be the one left out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): Don't do it!! There is a brilliant website but I've lost the url (I'll attempt to find it). On there, there is a psychologist who basically says a threesome is not a natural state of affairs because we are very territorial and who wants to see their significant other getting it on with someone else. She also said, that a man might have a fantasy to own a flying car but in reality he's not likely to ever get it, so his 3some can stay as just that, a fantasy. And I remember seeing in the media some time ago, a photograph of a female lioness attacking the male as he headed over to another female for a bit of you know what. The lioness was soooo angry I think she had basically clawed his tongue. So, don't do it because he wants to; I am starting to think that the whole sex thing is very much geared towards men's needs etc, Oh, let's role play for them, let's do 3somes with them, lets put on our sexy lingerie for them - what a load of balloney - what the fu** do they ever do in return??? I have just indulged in role play with my partner, but the thought crossed my mind this morning - it's his turn next. He won't be expecting it, but I am going to say, right, now you can dress as a fireman and get me all going - there are TWO people in a relationship you know!!!!!! Men ehh, grrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!
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