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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i had sex with my boyfriend... but i am going to marry with someone else as my family is forcing me......my bf is really ok with my decision to marry someoneelse......will my to be husband come to know that i am not virgin.........please help..... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): we get this question all the time from women in your region. the answer is yes . your hb will know. so many women write here even wanting advice as to how to dope your hb's into believing that they are virgins. please, do not be one of them that lie. bigger problems are bound to happen.
your bf is ok with you marrying another man. dis he ever have eelings of love for you or is it just lust. will you carry on with your bf once married?
it is very unkind of women to lie about their virginity. if you have had sex then you sould admit it. lies begets lies. and once the ugly web of lies start it doesn't end.
i actually feel sorry for most of the indian men who believe that they are getting a virgin when they marry. it is so sad that we lie about something so sacred.
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female
reader, Starlights  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 yes when ur husband sleeps with u he will know ur not a virgin becoz u wont bleed and he may feel the difference.
its best if u be honest, otherwise u can risk him being hurt and cause bigger drama in the family.
good luck
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): He probably won't if you only has sex one time. But do you really want to start a marriage based on lies? I understand that being a virgin is extremely important in your country but you don't want to live a lie!
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