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writes:I have a crush on my next door neighbour (same age). How can we date without having an awkward life if we break up (i.e seeing her and her parents often etc) To top things off, she's good friends with my sister (who told me she's ok with me going out with her). She commented to my sister that she likes me, but she dosent wanna ruin what the two friends have. this dosent look like it can end well, any ideas? Cause I really want it to work.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (14 July 2009):
 Your pretty young so im gonna say its highly doubtful your gonna be with her forever you will probably just grow apart as work and school become bigger forces in your life, when you say like im assuming its just normal physical attraction opposite sexes feel for each other but you dont kno anything about this girl what she likes her personality or anything dont jump into a relationship with her cause she has a pretty face. I can say i was in a similiar situation my sisters friend liked me and wanted to go out with me i said sure at the time girls werent really a big deal to me well after a few months she started being wierd so i thought at the time telling me she loved me and wanting to do sexual things well at 13 i wasnt to sure about all that so i just made excuses not to, she told a bunch of guys at school that i wouldnt do anything with her of course that was embarrassing so we broke up after that we had a bad relationship till i moved and since we lived in a small town it was impossible to avoid each other since then i dont date family freinds coworkers or basically any one i have to see on a regular basis and knows where i live, to conclude i will say its a bad idea if you break up shell be rite next door youll have to watch her bring her new bf over shell have parties and not invite you etc get a girl thats lives some distance away if you want try and be friends with benefits at the most with this neighbor girl can you imagine having to look her dad in the eye every time you take out the trash after you break up ughh itll be horrible lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): i would say go for it, because i believe you should always try things in life even if they don't suceed. Lifes to short not to!
However, i was in this situation and it WAS aquward when it didn't work out and i had to see him everyday! eek!
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reader, ChristianGirl  +, writes (14 July 2009):
think about it this way do you know any of your sisters friends? i know you live next door to one another but if you did break up then would it really affect your life that much its not like youll be seeing each other on a daily basis. even if you did then all you have to do is smile and say hi to stay pleasant for your sisters friendship if anything. i say go for it if you dont do it now then what happens in the future when you like someone and youre to afraid to talk to them? lifes to short for wat if's just make it clear that your sisters kool and you wont let it affect there friendship. Good Luck X
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