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writes:I am a sad old man, please help me to solve my problems.I have sex with the wife of my brother in law,we have sex at her age of 36 and me 40yrs old,in year 2000.we have sex in the time when my wife and kids back home to my mother in law at 300km away.The wife of her brother is actually falling in love to me for long time, ever since my marriage with my wife for 8 yrs,at the time we have sex.She use to touch me and sit near me when we are alone,I come to realize her love and desire of sex in me when she always wearing low neck t- shirt and show her breast to me and asking me to take her out alone,but I never got real sex with her until the that moment when when my wife is away, and she is asking me am I lonely?so I reply of course I am lonely, than she ask to go to help me clean up house since my wife is away.I took her to my house and left her alone and went out for my normal work.she came in at 1pm and I came back at 4pm,I suppose to take her back since she must have completed cleaning up my house.But I can't find her in downstair, so I look around and found her sleeping in my kid's room, so I wake her up and on the same time I lay her side for a rest, than she touch my face and smiling at me, so I ask her if she want to go home now, but she didn't answer me, yet she keep on touching my body and than I saw her is already in her shirt off,so I got excited and turn my face to look on her,she smile and ask me to kiss her,I got up and give a hug to her than I kiss her,so we have sex in the 1st time.I regreated and feel bad after having sex with her, but she told me not to feel bad, because she love me and she is willing to have sex with me,even in secretly without letting anyone know.I sent her home and stop seeing her for 2 days,but my desire of sex make me go to see her on the 3rd days, than she came alone with me back to my house again.this time we have good and happy sex for a whole day through, her husband only came back once in a month. so I sent ther back at night. we have sex everyday for the whole week through untill my wife came back.than we have a date to have sex in the hotel after my wife came back, untill a day she ask me to buy her a house and keep her in there whitout having her husband know it, I refused to do so, because I fell guilty to do it in her way, so from the time onwards she refuse to go out having sex with me and later she told her mother and her husband that I force her for sex, and this matter really make me crazy and lost of mind.Lucky my wife never belive on the her since the both brother and wife likes to tell lies.Anyway I really feel guilty and bad, so I run away to work in oversea for 8 years, just came back home last year after her whole family move over to a big city.I just can't understand why she say she love me and she personally want sex with me, but at the end she turn the story and accused me for forcing her to have sex, why she want to say so??I still in love with her and wish to have realtionship with her,and I miss her very much on our happiness in sex and her good smell of women.I try to call her and she refuse seeing me now,so pleae tell me what should I do,and pleae don't laugh at my silly of asking for help at my age of 49yrs old now.I belive she still love me too,because I happened to meet her few time in some occasion,she just peering at me and dare to look up to my eyes, many time I saw her looking at me,and I also heard thtat her husband is not treating her good, I want to take care for her and love her, but how????
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009): pathetic. do you know why? you are not an sad old misguided man. you are an adulterer who did not give a damn about your wife. you are not in tormoil. you messed with your marriage and this womans marriage. you enjoyed your affair yet now you want to cover up the details of your affair. i hope your brother in law shows you just who is the boss here and lets rip. well you have destroyed your familys life all by yourself and you should face the consequences. what man in his right man runs away and not admit his wrong doing. you think you have gotten away from revealing your affair with this woman from your wife. you continue to lie and deceive your wfe. and i am sure you will say you are a good person, just misunderstood, right? wrong - you have done wrong to everyone. you may think you have covered all traces of your affair but it will blow up in your face. and from the story you have written it is just a matter of time. running away from the mess you have created will not solve your problems. be a man and confess to this mess. spare your wife the trauma and the hurt, the betrayal and the humiliation you are putting her through. that is what a real man will do. so, what will it be? the cowards way out by running away or rectifying the wrongs of this mess of your affair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI appreciate the 2 lady's answer to me, may be I should really make a trip out to work in oversea and keep myself busy untill my dying day. Thank you my dear friends.
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reader, Jayney Y  +, writes (14 July 2009):
 Find out if she feels the same way and then plan what you're going to do. In this day and age there is no really good reason why two people who love each other should be apart.
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