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writes:I'm nervous. I've been seeing this guy and i'm really worried that i'm not going to be enough, sexually. It's embarrassing to admit... You see, he has 8 inches down there, and I'm worried that I won't be able to give him decent oral sex. He told me he's never had a decent blow job - something about every penis having the same amount of nerves and because his is large he doesn't feel it as good. Also, we've been sending dirty pictures and he's got the impression I have really big boobs but anyone can make theirs look massive in a picture. I don't want him to be dissapointed with me. We're completely honest with eachother and I know he's slept with a lot of girls. I come across quite confident sexually but in reality I'm bricking it... what can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): If you're able to be honest with each other then why not tell him you're feeling nervous? There's no shame in admitting it and I'm sure he's feeling nervous too.He is not gonna care how big your boobs are, trust me! In my experience guys are just glad to see them no matter what size they are!Okay, a tip from the cosmo website-make a ring around your mouth with your thumb and first finger, keep it there while you go down on him. It'll make him feel that you're taking him much deeper into your mouth than you actually are.And I also read a guy poll about what makes a good blow job recently, apparently the wetter the better is the answer most guys gave!Just relax and have fun with it x
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 UM gonna say if your giving him a BJ he will just be thankfull for the attmept you should just go with the flow and ask him how your doing let him kno your open to tips and learning dont try to be an expert cuse then hell start to wonder why your so good at it and how many guys you have been with hell enjoy it alot more if he thinks your the only guy your giving them to from a male perspective im gonna say how well you give a bj wont make or break the relationship and you have plenty of time for improvement and hes probably exaggerating about his size and trust me hes gonna feel it regardless.
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reader, newbern +, writes (13 July 2009):
What if he's also just telling you he has an 8 incher and he's bricking it too coz it's not that big? ;-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): No, you will be cool. An ex boyfriend taught me this trick and ever since I have been doing this guys have been screaming in delight.
This sounds a bit disgusting and when my ex first told me to do it I thought it was gross, but he wanted it so I did it.
The trick is to use lots of spit, I mean literally spit all over it. Then get you tongue and swirl it around the head of his penis and spit some more and as it gets more intense suck really hard on the head.
Then go down the shaft with you whole mouth and then try wanking him off really hard as you are twirling your tongue around the head.
I know this sounds disgusting but it really works. Every single guy I have done this too has got off on this and can not stop complimenting me.
Do not brick yourself, you will be fine. Do this and I will guarantee you he will start screaming and love you forever. I have never had a guy not scream in pure delight.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 July 2009):
 Get online and order the book:
" Tickle his Pickle" by Sadie Allison
I swear you will learn a few tricks that will help you knock his socks off. I'm pretty sure he isn't expecting serious deep throat, so relax and use all you got. ( hands, mouth, tongue).
Wear a push up bra the first time you see him :) He isn't going to worry about your breast size, he's going to worry about being able to please you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): You have the answer already
"We're completely honest with eachother...."
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