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*rinPatterson
writes: Should you continue a relationship when you have trust issues and know that it is not going to be the white picket fence situation that you want? I mean I guesse you never know but..I mean I think I should walk away on it but dont because I do care..but not necessaritly sure if I trust him.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): If the person has betrayed trust and you have found to be lying,keeping secrets etc. Its better to leave. You cant trust the untrustworthy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): Communication is essential here! Without knowing the grounds of why you don't trust him, I feel you need to talk and air your issues rather than letting them eat away at you. You need to give your partner a chance to defend himself. Sometimes people have a roving eye but it doesn't necessarily mean they're going to cheat! Sometimes a person has been cheated on themselves and thinks that it'll happen again so maybe it's you that has an issue hanging over from a previous relationship and talking might help.
If it's a gut instinct, then in my experience, that instinct is usually right! We all mistakes though so talk and don't give up too easily!
Good luck x
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