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writes:I have known this guy for about 4 or so years...he has always been the guy to usually want some..he's had girlfriends and such in these years but whenever they would break up he would always come talking to me again..usually wanting to hook up or asking for pictures..well here lately he has been saying he wants to get to know me and that he likes me and wants to hang out, but everytime I ask what we would do he always says we can watch movies at his house..well that usually means one thing..am I wasting my time? I don't know whether he actually likes me or just telling me things I wanna hear? Whenever I ask him if that's all he wants he gets mad...and I have always had a little something for him.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (7 December 2009):
 If he is sincere, and I have doubts, he certainly needs some instruction. Lock the pantry and the purse. Tell him what you want. Not "hanging out", dates. Dates need not be expensive but they should show that he has put time and effort into planning a good time for you. Movies are a cop out. Make sure there is time for real conversation. I would bet that he doesn't even know your favorite color, or flower.
What you are trying to do is to reform a "bad boy". When you feel that he is making a commitment to really get to know you, and not just playing the game, then you can move on. It will be hard, he is an experienced player and knows all the games.
Remember bad boys will continue to be bad as long as there is one girl who will reward their bad behavior.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 December 2009):
Somehow I doubt he's changed. A good guy who wants to get to know you doesn't try it on so fast. Surely he would offer to take you out somewhere on a date. I think you might be safer remaining friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): No, I have never had sex with him..so I don't know if maybe its a chase or what.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 December 2009):
 Sounds like you have been giving him more than "a little something". Knock off the sex next time he comes a calling and see if he hangs around or calls you again.
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