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writes:been with bf since august he wanted carry on relationship while he went in army. his pass out parade soon kept begging me go, we really close and always including me in future plans for next year, also said i really do make him happythen couldnt communicate while camping with army and he text me when he back saying dont get me wrong i do like you an all but wud just be a phone relationship but we can have something better when i get more freedom from armyi agreed even tho im heartbroken but i cant believe hes said this now cos in 11 days he'll be coming home for 3 weeks, how am i gonna cope then :( i believe him that he hasnt found someone else n theres no girls in his barracks but its just wrong time for him to have relationship and he felt he was messing me about but he wasnt, but could he miss me or change his mind when hes home for 3 weeks?thanks xx
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reader, goodgirlgonebad254 +, writes (9 December 2009):
goodgirlgonebad254 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you i appreciate your answer, i guess i realised how much he means to me now that we apart and because he still likes me im hoping he will feel the same and miss us, although im not going to contact him, thanks for helping xx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 December 2009):
He will probably get back with you for the 3 weeks he's home but will want to split up when he leaves. So only get with him if you are ready to be used and dumped.
Everyone will be telling him that long distance girlfriends from home are not a good idea. 90% of the time it won't work out and as an army wife let me tell you, he will NEVER get more freedom from the army. He will let you down, get his leave cancelled last minute, get put on guard duty, and that's only while he's in the UK.
He'll go off to Afghan sooner or later, and while he'll love getting letters from you and all his girl friends, he won't want to commit.
I think it would be better to have a long chat with him when he comes home and decide if you can really deal with everything he will put you through.
Keep in touch but please don't expect this to have a happy ending.
Good Luck!! xx
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