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writes:Ok. i like this guy.He is five years younger than me, i'm 26 next may, and he is 21 in february. I'm not sure if he jsut likes me as a friend, or more than that.He asks to meet up with me alot. He once made a comment that he thinks i suit short hair. He texts me a lot too and always calls me " love ".To bring you up to date, he said he finished with a girlfriend on friday ( i didn't even know he had a girlfriend until then ), he hadn't been with her long though, a couple of months i think. Tonight, he said he wanted to go round town with me. He said he was going round there earlier in the evening at first but it kept getting later.I know soemtimes you can't keep track of time when you are out, and he went round another nearby area first, but was going to meet me in our hometown.Anyway, he didn't get there until 1.30 am.He tried to call me but i missed the call so i told him to ring me back about 2 am. He asked me if i was still going to meet him.We could barely hear each other but i said it was very late and i couldn't go but i could have gone if he had gone earlier.He hung up, but i'm not sure if it was because of the noise in the club, or because he was drunk, or becasue he thought I wasnt interested.Do you think it sounds like he fancies me and if so what should I do ?. I really like him a lot, but i'm not sure where i stand with him. I don't have too much of a problem with him being younger, but i know sometimes it can be difficult.When we first met, one of his friends liked me and tried to get me to dance with him but i kept looking and smiling at this guy, and he even asked a while later in a text message why i had kept looking at him that night.He was smiling at me when i looked at him too.I did tell him ages ago that i liked him and he said we could meet up and see how it goes, whatever that means.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): He also told me that he finished with her because she kept messing him around, and i have told him that i don't do things like that, and that i have had trouble with other guys i dated and it's better to forget people like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): just to let you know, he sent me a text message after we spoke on the phone last night saying he wants to meet up again, and that he wished i had seen him last night, and he said he couldn't hear me very well when he phoned..He has asked me to meet him when he's been sober too, we just haven't much yet because i have been busy with work too, although i'm not always too busy.He also goes to college and works.I was also worried because i told him that i liked him a while ago, and he said we could meet and see how it goes, and i'm assuming this was before he started seeing the other girl, and i'm just wondering why he started seeing her if he likes me ?.I was also surprised that he didnt tell me he had a girlfriend until he finished with her, and that he told me that he had a girlfriend at all because he knew i liked him.And i'm wondering if he only asked me to meet him last weekend because he had just finished with her, although he has asked me to meet him before, and i wonder what his intentions are.I guess i wont really know until we speak in person.He also wants me to go to out for the whole weekend for his birthday in February. I think some of his friends will be going as well. He might want to meet at Christmas too.I'll let you know what happens. What do you think of this ?.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 December 2009):
I'm a younger guy seeing an older woman, so I know it can work if he is mature enough (and he does need to be mature, or you will notice differences). It sounds like he really does like you, but his responses worry me that he's not mature enough to take this on yet, so you need to do a bit more homework on him. The best thing to do is to phone him when he's sober and ask him if he wants to come out with you, find out when he's free and set a time. His lack of time keeping is the first indication that he may not be mature enough, an to hang up without calling back is also suspicious. I'm not saying don't try, I'm just saying be careful you don't end up taking on a boy, rather than a man. Set up a date and see where it leads. And remember that he has just split up, so take it slow.
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