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female
age
36-40,
*weetnest
writes:i text the guy that i like last night.the day u txt me was the happiest day of my life, today i dnt knw. i jst wonder wht i did tht was so wrong to deserve ur silence and ur rejection it hurts so bad. never been rejected before.i guess theres always a first time. i wonder wht gave u the courage tht night i wish we can go back to tht night and start all over, never meant to scared you or intimidate u or push u away.Never thought my feelings towards u wld push u away. and it hurts like crazy. so i decided tht even doe it hurts i have to let u go.Sry for being such a pest. i learnd my lesson i give up. They say whn u love something set it free if it comes back to u it is yoursif it doesnt it never was. i will luv u always ill never forget u.( wut u mean be afraid of u.) these were ur words. i tht u were interested i was wrng. till fate reunite us. good bye luv. was i out of line whn i txt him this. am i doing right by letting him go. do u think he wld try to contact me, after this, im really not gonna begg anymore. i feel tht i have to give him some space so he can think things through. to decide if he wnts to be wit me or not. please help im going crazy not knowing wht he thinks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): Hi
you doing right thing by giveing him space, let him contact you maybe he will or maybe he won't and if he dosent then you no it was not meant to be. remember you shouldn't feel it's all your fault. Keep busy take your mind off it the worse times are when u just sit and think and then you will not be able to resist sending another message. Be strong you can do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): Are you really almost 25?
Why would you say all that stuff to a guy by text? If he isn't willing to communicate with you face to face then he isn't ready to hear how much you love him and that you are letting him go until fate reunites you.
You honestly think that two people are fated to be together for life? Get a grip. I think you watch too many soap operas and too many movies and you are hung up on love, you are in love with the idea of love and not this guy and you know what he knows that too. You are either joking with him and being sarcastic or you are going way over the top and he is going to think you are clingy desperate and nuts.
So now you know how he thinks, no need to keep driving yourself crazy.
I want you to go to the library or go to your local bookstore and get the book
"Why Men Love Bitches" From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
http://www.amazon.com/Why-Men-Love-Bitches-Relationship/dp/1580627560
It is a comical book and the title is tongue in cheek, but I think you need some help on how to date men.
Good Luck
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (7 December 2009):
Jesus that's a bit intensive! Are you two really serious and breaking up? Or are you just being super pushy about the whole thing?
Telling a guy "that you like" that you'll always love him and all that other stuff is going to freak him out completely.
Let the guy go and when you like someone new don't be so forward about it all! Chill out a bit.
Good Luck!! xx
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