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writes:Okay I met this really great guy we've been talking for a while now and stuff and he wants to have sex. I do too but I'm really scared of how much it is going to hurt. So could u all help me understand how much it is going to hurt it would be great. Cause I'm really scared.. Reply to this Question
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (23 December 2009):
bOy CrAzY;} is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx guys u were a really big help:) I put him to the test and told him I wasn't going to do it and he dumped me and told me to fuck off:(:(:( thanx for your help. If u wouldn't have given me this advice I wouldn't have put him to the test and I'd be heart broken and hymen broken:) thanx once again y'all!! Bye.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (7 December 2009):
 If you are scared your body is not going to cooperate at all in your plan to have sex.
And if your body is not cooperating it is going to be a lot harder and hurt more.
I think you should give up on this idea for a year or two, what ever happened to the days when girls as young as you having sex were considered skanks?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): If you're that scared then you aren't ready. Is this guy even your boyfriend??! It sounds like he is just using you. What if you have sex with him and afterwards he won't talk to you anymore? Don't do it.
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reader, YaTuSabes +, writes (7 December 2009):
if youre scared, DO NOT HAVE SEX. there is no reason to. and youre young. you have time to be sure. no need to rush. and i dont know what youre definition of a while is, but it seems so rushed to me. you might not even like him within the next month. you only have one first time, dont ruin it. you cant get it back.
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