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anonymous
writes:I am in a long term gay relationship. Things between us are mostly good and we love each other a lot but when it comes to sex I would like a whole lot more than my partner.After a few years of struggling with this I broke up with him. I couldn't take it any more. We did have sex every week but often just once and he wouldn't even talk about it. Rejection and frustration had taken their toll.Anyway we went to counselling and the resolve was even though I would like a LOT more I could get by with three times a week (up from his once or twice a week). He initially said an outright no but then changed his mind and said lets give that a go.So we got back together and things have been good BUT many months later we have NEVER had sex three times in one week. I left this relationship with a broken heart because I couldn't handle a lower level of intimacy and it now feels like I was drawn back in by a false or broken promise.It makes me sad. What do I do for the best? :(
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reader, baybay  +, writes (11 December 2009):
 that sucks!!!!!!!!!! your best bet is to find someone new honestly if im with someone i expect them to do it every single time i want it and ill return the favor odviously if hes holding out on you then hes not your perfect guy and you need to move on and find the perfect someone that cant keep there hands off you.
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