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Any inventive sex suggestions?

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Question - (7 December 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 December 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Having fun and looking for new ideas. It is my turn to come up with something new. Last time we tried ice in the anus (recommended). We also use toys. Any inventive suggestions?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009):

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Simply due to my annoyance at not being able to find many good suggestions (I may be bad at searching this), I will add what we did do this time. (And yes, we did have a no frills, make love, session in between experiments.)

We used home made versions of nipple clamps. Paperclips, bobby pins, and other hair accessories work well. If your pain tolerance is higher, you may attempt adding them to the head of the penis or the clitoris.

Have fun and I hope this message helps someone searching in the future. We are always looking for new ideas and feel free to add yours.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009):

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I have used toys on him in the past.

I recommend the ice thing, but never in the pussy. The pussy was not a fun sexperiment.

We are currently 6 hours apart, so it needs to be something we can do via phone/alone while talking. I have picked up some fun ideas for when we are together again.

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A female reader, PixiePie United Kingdom +, writes (7 December 2009):

PixiePie agony auntyou could try exploring each others fantasies, for example schoolgirl and teacher or nurse and patient.

you could even try some of the more adventurous ones like threesomes etc, if you don't want to actually do them then talk about them whilst masturbating to each other or during foreplay. telling each other wht the other person in the threesome would do to them etc.

making your own porn is also a very good idea, as is watching porn.

have fun ;P

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009):

How about you forget all the over the top adventurous shit and just plain make love? If you do kinky stuff all the time sex will evetnually cocme boring as you run out of ideas as you have done now. It also becomes more about the kinky stuff than actually loving eachother

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A female reader, Emjo United Kingdom +, writes (7 December 2009):

Emjo agony auntIt sounds like your quite an adventourous pair... and not know what else you've done makes this a little difficult for us as aunts as we may just repeat suggestions that you've already done but oh well here goes..

What about food? introducing melted chocolate, sauces etc..?

Or perhaps experiment with toys on him?

Possible use of lubes? different ones?

Role play?

dominance and submission? - blind folds, handcuffs, whips etc.

dress up?

Make a video?

Mutual masturbation?

Watching porn?

Just a few ideas...

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