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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay soo my boyfriend of almost 3 years tends to look up porn online alot not everysday but when im not around....this really bothers mee...i know its normal but it makes me sick when he maturbates into out trash can in the bedroom or stuff like that...we have sex rgualry not everyday but when we feel like itt...ya know...but my problem is when i find out he has materbated i feel sick like that! and it pisses me offf badd. I am finding myself snooping around seeing if he has looked at porn and if he has left anything "behind"....Ya know i want to stop this i know he will continuee...i just want it to not bother me or make me sick...or try to find out if he has....what can i do...Thanksss:D
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): Youre welcome sweetheart. Seasons greetings and dont let his habit worry you too much. Buy him a jigsaw puzzle for Christmas. That might distract him for a little while x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): Just saying i do actually live with him. we have our own appartment and stuff. I will try my best to not worrie about it anymore thank you all for your responses! :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): Hi its not uncommon or unreasonable for you to dislike pornography. Many women and men dislike it and dont like their partners watching it. As for finding his sperm in the bin in your bedroom. This guy clearly has no style. Ask him to stop masterbating in the bedroom waste bin and find a more discreet way of disposing of it. Down the loo or some thing similar.
If he seems to be watching a lot of pornography and masterbating to the extent that it affecting your sex life, then he may well be addicted to pornography. If that is the case try and get him to go speak to a counsellor. Having said all that, you do seem very young to be having to worry about the seamier side of life already. Maybe you should widen your friendship base, find more agreeable interests outside of your relationship with this guy and leave him to his computer and waste bin. I would x
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reader, brovers  +, writes (7 December 2009):
 to masturbate may be normal but you must tell him if he wants to do it dont leave evidence , also dont look for it
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reader, Mr Me +, writes (7 December 2009):
 Agreeing with CaringGuy: all guys do it and they will until their parts stop working. You need to stop freaking out thinking this has any indication on you, because it does not! It doesn't matter how many times you guys have sex, he will still find a time to masturbate; it's just what young males do. And, to reiterate, this has nothing to do (no indication on any thoughts the young man has) with the girlfriend/wife.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 December 2009):
Nearly all men do this, usually because it provides quick relief. At least he's disposing of the evidence. If you're looking for it, you're only going to get more hurt.
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