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*hannon Williams
writes:My best friend suffered a lot cos her husband cheated on her and passed onto her a sexually transmitted disease. Now she's found somebody and they ocasionally have sex and she's thinking about divorce as her husband never apologised and doesn'r seem to care but about their 12 year old daughter, should I recommend her to divorce???
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reader, bitch  +, writes (7 December 2009):
I honestly don't think you should say anything at all. I think it is her business and I think that she will come to that conclusion when she is ready. It is definitly heading in that direction anyways, and it will run it's course. I am sorry for your friend and you having to experience the concern for her and her daughter. It must be difficult if you care for her like you sound like you do. Just be her friend through it all and tell her you are there for her at any time. You are definitely a good friend.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 December 2009):
Wait until she asks for your advice before you suggest that. In the meantime, tell her you're concerned about how she is behaving. That might just open her mind up a bit more to the idea of it.
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reader, Shannon Williams +, writes (7 December 2009):
Shannon Williams is verified as being by the original poster of the question Yes the problem is cheating started like a sort of revenge and made her realise she's not happy with her marriage, I'm worried she may repent if she goes on with the cheating and ends up in divorce, sometimes I feel she's a bit selfish for getting me into this matter really I don't feel so cared by her when I talk to her about my stuff and I want to help but I would really like her marriage to work as I love the little girl very much and I think they're better together maybe it is selfish on my side to feel like this too
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 December 2009):
 If she asks your opinion I'd definitely recommend a divorce, but only if she asks for your advice.
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