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writes:i am a 17 year old gay male and am ready for receiving anal sex. I have fingered myself on many occasion and found this quite enjoyable. However, I am worried about being embarrassed during anal sex, due to my anus smelling or tasting bad. I am also worried that small amounts of faeces will end up on my boyfriends penis or his penis wil end up smelling bad once he removes it. After fingering myself I have noticed my finger smelling bad, so this is holding me back in the bedroom. I wont talk to my boyfriend about it because it's not the most flattering topic. I know cleaning can help, but when your out and about or go back to a guys house you have met that night, you can't spend hours trying to get your anus right. Maybe, I'm being too anal (no pun intended), maybe this wont bother other guys, i just don know. Please help. I would be ever so grateful if people could just give me some feedback. I don't know wot else to do, and it is making me rather miserabe and I am losing self confidence and esteem in my self.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 December 2009):
You are going to be using condoms and lube as satindesire has wisely said to that will solve a lot of your problems.
But what you are worrying about it all just the natural stuff.
Sex is a messy smelly hairy noisy scary thing. If you're good at it then that's why you'll love it!
He's a guy and he poos too. In my experience men love talking about poo and dirty things so unless he's obsessive compulsive about cleaning the bathroom then I think you are going to be just fine.
Besides he's going to be too nervous about what you are thinking to worry about anything like that. He's going to feel under pressure too!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): Well, that's your anus babe...it's going to smell unless you clean yourself before you have sex. Also, having fingers in your anus is totally, totally different from having a penis in...I heard it can be pretty pain and can lead to cancer and all sort of other none related STD infections. Just make sure you don't do "anus to mouth" you are certain to catch an infection because, if the truth be told....fecal matter should not be ingested.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): no need to be worried the only thing i can do is tell you to clean befor having sex ,, i hop this helps i helped me
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