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writes:Hello all again, I'm the same one from http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-recreate-a-scene-from-the-twilight.html .I slept over it, and after indirectly-asking a friend of hers, I came up with what I can do, so that she will have the most possibilities to withdraw:I'll call her, and ask if she can meet me downstairs (escape #1). We sometimes sit there and talk, and it won't be the first time I do that. After a while, I'll tell her I found a nice new place (or something around those lines, #2). We'll walk there, whilst on the way I'll mention Twilight somehow. Once we get there, I'll just act casually. When there is that silence moment that almost every conversation has, I'll ask her if this reminds her of anything (#3). If no, I won't go ahead. If yes, I'll ask her if she liked that scene (#4). If all goes right, I'll turn and adjust myself on my elbow, facing her. That way she'll have some way or another of reacting (#5); verbally or doing a casual motion of moving the other way.Is this a good plan? Do you think I should use it, and are there any refinements I can make to it? I made the "escape" possibilities more blunt as time progresses, and she isn't dumb, so I think she could know the meaning of these hints...Right?Thank you all very much for helping me last time, I took your tips to mind, and again, I thank you in advance. Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (7 December 2009):
 It's very tricky, assuming someone will get all of your hints. And it will hurt like hell if she doesn't pick up on them and you lean in to kiss her and she backs away with a "what are you doing?". However, this situation could be magical and wonderful.
But, I still think the best option is for you to call her and ask her if she wants to grab a bite to eat. Have a nice little semi-date and then ask if she wants to take a walk, because you found a really beautiful new place. If she says yes, then you're in the clear. Then, continue with the plan.
You're a very sweet fella, I just want to make sure you're not setting yourself up for rejection. And, besides, you want to show her what a great date you are, don't you? So take her out on a casual little outing!
Good luck!
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