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Was this too soon to have sex after a termination?

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Question - (7 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *onfused.1 writes:

i need help!!!

i had sex 10 days after i had a termination will i be ok??? they told me to wait until 14 days surely 4 days wont hurt or do you think i should see a doctor?

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A female reader, ffogalilly United States +, writes (7 December 2009):

You needed to wait, that is too soon, plus after an abortion it doesn't take long for you to ovulate right away. But you are probably not healed up, so go see your doctor. There is a possibility you could get pregnant again, get on birth control use condoms.

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A female reader, celtic_tiger United Kingdom +, writes (7 December 2009):

celtic_tiger agony auntI think if you are having concerns, then yes it is too soon, and if you are even a tiny bit unsure go and get checked out. With things like terminations, apart from the physical issues, there are also emotional ones.

Depending on the type of termination you had, it may well be that you needed to heal internally, and giving 14 days allows for this to happen fully without the possibility of infection or further damage. Just because you cant see it or feel it doesnt mean its 100% ok after 10 days.

I do wonder why you wanted to rush into sex so quickly after a termination tho?

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