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We are living together but she doesn't want sex

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Question - (7 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and My Girlfriend have been dating for a little ova 2 months. Im 20 shes 18. Shes had a rough patch, and shes been used, cheated on, and used some more. Shes been living with me and my parents for about a month now (wed be on our own but I got into some trouble and all my money to get an apartment goes to my fines.) the reason shes living with me and my parents is becuse she got kicked outta where she was living about a month ago. Well I really wanna start having sex again with her, the last time we did was the night we moved in, and that was about a month ago. Every time I bring t up she says its not important to her, or shes not in the mood, or she says she doesnt like sex. Can someone please help. I just wanna kno what I can say to her to tell her that im happy being with her, but Im not so happy with the lack of sex.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (7 December 2009):

DoubleM agony auntWell you can tell her that you're "not so happy with the lack of sex" but it sounds like she may be highly stressed, and telling her that may just exacerbate the problem. My suggestion is to give her some slack until you guys get through all your other problems.

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A male reader, brovers United Kingdom +, writes (7 December 2009):

brovers agony aunttell her the truth , it is obviously important to you so you should speak to her and tell her your feeling ,

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