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writes:i was just in a 2 year relationship and felt smothered by him cause he was so inlove with me and up my butt it drove me crazy. so i cheated on him with this boy named sean and and eventually we got abck together i loved partying and playing with my friends and doing fun things but he would smother me and we would jsut watch a movie insted of me going out with my freinds. i loved hanging out with him though cause were both really weird people and do wierd stuff together and im really confortable around him but i feel like im too old to feel married right now. im typing relaly fast so sorry if you cant understand this. but yeah i dont no what do to cause i just broke up with him 3 weeks ago and i already had sex with that boy i cheated on him with and heis sad but im not really sad about it and i dont no why. i understand that the boy i cheated on him with isnt the best guy ever and that my old boyfriend was the best boygfriend ever i cant resist liking the bad boy and i also talk to alot of other boyys cause i likethe attention from all of them but i no that the best guy is my old boyfriend but im scared to go back with him cause i dont want to feel married, sooo i dotn no what to do and he is so sad and im not that sad i just thing this situation is right girl wrong timel
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (7 December 2009):
You don't want a relationship and he does. Simple as that.
You are going to keep hurting him if you get back with him so be his friend, and go round and hang out with him every now and then but be honest and tell him you can't be with him because you aren't ready to stop being single.
Go out and have fun.
He may have been a great boyfriend, but clearly he's not the RIGHT boyfriend for you. You want someone who'll go out and have fun with you and keep it quite casual.
He wants a girl to snuggle with on the sofa. So let him find a snuggly girl, and you find a party boy and everyone will be happy.
Sometimes it's easy to confuse the feelings you have for a close male friend. You can love him as a mate, but not be interested in him as a boyfriend if you know he's not right for you.
Good Luck!! xx
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