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I can't figure out if I want a relationship with this new man or my husband. Should I tell my husband and his wife to get it all on the table?

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Question - (14 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2008)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

I am married woman in a relationship with a married man for a year.

We both have children and are in very unhappy marriages. It was very passionate and "forever" in the beginning. Things have waned a bit, so now we are trying to be friends. We really like each other a lot as friends, too. I'm feeling guilty about the past. But can't figure out if I want a relationship with this new man or my husband. Several questions:

Should I tell my husband and my friends wife, to get it all out on the table. So we can all move forward, honestly

Should I just continue the friendship, hoping things don't get romantic again. Is that possible?

Should I just drop the whole thing and just live with the past lie?

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (14 May 2008):

eddie agony auntWho you think you are telling the other man's wife? You created this rotten mess and do you honestly believe you can wave a wand and make it all OK. You need to understand the severity of the deed you were part of.

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