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anonymous
writes:I recently went through my boyfriend's cell phone after an argument, and found some very detailed explicit sex messages indicating some oral sex acts he performed on her and how she wanted to do certain sexual things to him again. He does not know that I know. It has been eating at me ever since I saw them, but I dont want to let him know that I know about these women. What should I do? Now everytime he says he going somewhere, I feel sick to my stomach, Because I think he is going to meet these women. What should I do. Our relationship could be over if he finds out I went through his phone. But my health is at risk if he is sleeping and doing these things with other women. Help, what should I do.Confused
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (15 May 2008):
 Hi there,
your boyfriend must believe he is the luckiest man alive. He can sleep with whoever he wants and not worry about your reaction because you are only concerned if he will leave you.
Get yourself tested for STD's as he may be sleeping with these girls without protection.
If you manage to find a little bit of self respect inside you ( if he hasnt sucked it all out already ) then get the hell out of there as soon as you can.
Good luck.
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reader, sexseahot +, writes (14 May 2008):
 Confused? You should just dump him. What are you confused about? Your boyfriend is CHEATING on you. Is that someone you want to stay with? It's actually a good thing you found those texts or otherwise you wouldn't know any of this information. If you want your relationship to work though, you should talk to him about what you found on the phone. If he tries to say he's not doing anything wrong, then he's still lying to you and you can find someone so much better than that.
You should really talk to your boyfriend about this situation. If he's cheating on you, who cares that you found those texts, it only helps you realize how dishonest he is to you.
Good luck with this situation! Hopefully you make a wise decision!
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (14 May 2008):
 I Feel really bad for you. It sounds to me as though you should let him go. Because if he is seeing other women, you two are apparently over.
I would confront him with this. At least to satisfy yourself in letting him know that you are aware of his sluttiness. (excuse my choice of word, but I hate men who cheat) But, expect to break up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): Your relationship is already over. You don't trust him, and you've found out his not to be trusted. He couldn't trust you because your willing to spy and snoop on him. He's having sex with other women, you can't talk to him even when he's in the wrong. I don't understanding why your still with him.
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