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30-35,
*onnyboy
writes:hi my names jon im going out with my girlfriend weve been going out for around 2 months and its all going great and then she tells me that this other person has told her he's in love with her, and shes going to his house next week !? she tell me she only going as a freind and that she is happy with me and nothing is gunna happen but i dnt like it and she knows i dont what shall i do? PS.in the past i have been cheated on in 2 differnt relationships and i think this may be makeing me paranoid i hope it is or do you think i should move on? plz help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): playing with you? maybe. However, you need to end it. she obviuosly has some liking to this guy and doesn't want to let it go, maybe see what's there with him. Are you willing to wait until she figures that out? In the meantime she will probably lie to you numerous times.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): John, your not paranoid at all. it seems like this girl is trying to get you to respond to this.. you said you guys have only been dating 2 months..so maybe she is just playing with you to see what you will do. some girls are like that. she is just trying to get you jealous..and thats obvious. if she had an intention to cheat, she wouldnt have told you she would go over there. you need to tell her flat out how you feel about this. tell her that your concerned with her going to see some "guy" that said he loves her. what does she need to go see him for? if she loves you..then she wont go.
like i said..she could just be testing you...to see if you would care, and if you would be jealous. because i bet if you act like its no big deal...she will be confused and mad that you aren't jealous...some girls are just like that.
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reader, PeterPan  +, writes (14 May 2008):
 To me, that seems rather disrespectful on her part to tell you somebody loves her and she's going to his place. That doesn't make sense to me. Why would she bother to tell you all this other than to make you jealous?
What should you do? Unfortunately, there isn't much you can do. I think that if she's worth it, then fight to keep her, otherwise wish her well and send her on her way. Personally, if she's not aware of how you feel and isn't empathetic about your feelings, then you should move on!
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