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writes:Hi I feel so alone knowing my partner loves another.She does not know that I am aware of this relationship as one of her friends told me and says she would leave in an instant for him.Our relationship has been rocky but good in places. We have been together on and off through our lives and now looks as though it’s about to end...again.I feel it is my fault and have not always given her as much attention as she deserves, and want to do the right thing.Steve Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): It seems you are scared to lose her so are keeping this torment to yourself. It will eat you up so you need to do one of two things. Walk away from her yourself - effectively calling her bluff (you never know it may shock her into seeing what she is ruining) or you confront her calmly and ask her for the truth - she owes you that much. You cannot be a doormat - its just not going to do you any good. I hope you can generate the strength to take some action.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (14 May 2008):
 You have two options - confront her or keep it quiet. If you confront her it could mean the end but if she was so desperate to leave you for him why hasnt she?? Even though you deserve to know most women's friend would not tell the partner so i wonder at her motives. Alternatively start showering her with the attention she deserves and make your relationship fun and loving again and this may blow over and get you back on track. Good luck x
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