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Is it wrong to love my step-step-3rd cousin?

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Question - (14 May 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My dad got married in June (2007). I was hanging out with my step mom and we went to her cousin's new house. I have never met her cousin, until that day. Her cousin, has a step daughter. I couldn't help but tellin her how beautiful she was etc etc. No one really paid to much attention to it, except her. She is drop dead gorgeous.

I want to start dating the step daughter, but she has a boyfriend and I have a girlfriend. She doesn't sem to kno that I am THAT interested in her, unless she is hiding it.

I wanted to know if that would be sick, or wrong to date my "step step 3rd cousin"???

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

I dont think its wrong but you have a girlfriend and shes has a boyfriend i would see how she felt about you before you doing anything. and your not related so it should be okay :]

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A female reader, dolla18 United Kingdom +, writes (17 May 2008):

dolla18 agony auntHi no i dont see this as being a problem as you are not blood related so people should not comment on what you are doing. (but on saying that ppl can be crewl, i no this better than any1 being in a relationship with my 1st cousin myself)

Good Luck!!!

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A female reader, tsurugi-ijin United Kingdom +, writes (14 May 2008):

tsurugi-ijin agony auntNope, nothing wrong with this as there is no blood relation, only marrige.

Talk to her and get to know her though because rushing into this could cause problems not only for you 2 but if things don't go to plan, it could be troublesome for the family.

Get to know her as a friend for now and see where things go from there.

All the Best, Jin

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008):

Maybe she doesn't seem to realize that you're that interested because she isn't interested herself....because she has a boyfriend....

There's nothing wrong with you two dating..It just doesn't seem like she's interested in the least.

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A male reader, PeterPan United States +, writes (14 May 2008):

PeterPan agony auntI can never get those family hierarchy things, but sounds to me that you guys are about as related as you and I are. That said, other than your current relationships, I don't see an issue here.

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