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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:So m hubby and I had a misunderstanding. Few days ago--He said he would get online to talk to me, and I waited most of the night online for him but never showed up. I never got an email until the next day saying that "the internet was down, and his cell died etc" and i really thought that he has bsd his way out of it. I have expressed how I felt stood up and he wasnt really sorry at all for it. He has emailed me today and his email was straight about work is keeping him occupied though i have seen him online a social network site. He showed no emotion towards me at all like he usually would write "i love you, miss you etc". Right now, I had enough of his child behaviour. I waited out few days already and didnt expect that he would be so cold to since I havent done anything wrong. How much longer should I be waiting? When is enough is enough?What do you recommend?I know other ppl around me who are in reationships/marriages, and their partners woulnt dare to be doing that. Am I just allowing him to play with my heart? whats wrong with me? Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (14 May 2008):
 Maybe he was telling the truth and thinks youre being childish. You will never know so I think you need to sit down together and talk about what you each expect from your relationship before you make any decisions x
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 May 2008):
 When your gut feelings tell you that enough is enough ,
then you swing into actions.
Don't just sit there till the birds built their nest on your head .
Trashed it out with him and tell him what you expects from him.
He could be confused or thought what he was doing was right.
You need to communicate with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): There is nothin wrong with you.
We only allow others to treat us as bady as we treat ourselves.
When your sick and tired of being sick and tired you will put your foot down and set boundaries.
Whats acceptable to you? obviously allowing him to walk all over you.
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