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writes:kay so this boy has just recently started talking to me. he seems really cool and stuff and i'm really starting to like him. yesterday, he kinda asked me out and i said yes and then he kissed me. i guess we go out now but i'm not really sure. he kissed me today in front of everyone and they were like do you guys go out?! i really don't know if i should get involved because i heard a lot of stuff about him but i don'tknow if it's true.. in the beginning of the yr when he came to our school i heard that he was trying to get with all these girls at once. and then this girl that used to go out with him said that he broke up with her because she wouldn't have sex with him. i don't know if that's true but still. should i believe this stuff and not get involved with him?? when i talk to him he doesn't seem like any of that stuff and i feel so close to him and stuff. he's never talked about anything nasty to me and that's good. i haven't let myself get attached to him and that's how it's gonna stay till i find out what he's really about.. so what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): I think that you should date him, but proceed with caution. Don't judge him based on rumors. Just take it slow, and see what he's all about. Don't have sex with him until you're completely sure he's committed to you. If he really likes you then he'll wait until you're ready. If not, then he's a dog and you deserve better.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 May 2008):
 Use your own eyes to see and your ears to listen.
Judge him not by other's words but by his actions towards you.
Do not listen to rumours.
For all we know , it may not be true.
Give him the benefits of doubts till your intuition tells you that he is O.K.
Take each day as it comes and enjoy those moments.
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reader, jinxx  +, writes (14 May 2008):
 I think right now, you should disregard what you're hearing and give him a shot. What they're saying could be true, of course, but I think you should give him a chance to explain what has happened, if anything bad has happened. I'm sure everyone has more than a few bad things in their past, and that's life. Some people change, some stay the same. Talk to him about your worries, and if you're satisfied with his answers then continue on. If something bad happens with him in the future, learn from it and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): He sounds like he may be a player if you date him be forwarned. He may be trying to get in your pants so be smart and say no to that, like his ex. Who cares if he dumps you for that reason. Because if you have sex with him he prob will dump you after a couple of booty calls or untill he finds someone else who will put out. Keep your dignity girls that put out are only popular untill everbody's had them. Remember you can only give away virginity once and if your not a virgin you still should take care with sex and only do it with someone who loves and respects you. Treat your body with respect.Plus you don't want a guy like that to spread rumors about you. You should just dump him.
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