A
female
age
30-35,
*ahahaohHA
writes:ok. well i used to be friends with this one guy, who i used to have a crush on. I liked him until last year when i found someone else. We were still friends though. Then, at a party, he txted my friend saying he liked me and she didnt believe him because he's the class clown. but he said he wouldnt joke about something like this. So i txted him saying i liked him too. but only cuz i had a little left from before and now that he liked me, i was a little more interested. but then, i found out it was a joke. and pretty soon the whole grade was talking about it. even the guy i liked, which i had told him cuz i thought i could trust him. i got super pissed at him and told him in very colorful words how much i hated him. he got mad at ME and said i didnt know wat i wuz talking bout and that it wuznt a total joke. i ended it all by telling him that he has to explain this to me someday. its been 2 weeks and he hasnt answered me. I really dnt know if i can trust him, but idk if he's tryig to make himself look good, or it realy wasnt a total joke. idk if he DID tell the guy i like. idk if he'll ever explain this to me. but he's avoiding me like the flu and i really miss him. he used to make me laugh so much and its extremely awkward wen i pass him in the halls. the guy i liked even stopped him once and pushed him towards me. but he just avoided my eyes and told him to stop. GOD i am so frustrated with this. and like my friend said, now he's the forbidden fruit, which makes me want him even mooreee. xoxo plzzzz help
View related questions:
crush Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (15 May 2008):
 Well, you are a very forgiving and trusting soul if you want to be friends with him in spite of all of of his bad behavior, and I suspect that he is feeling somewhat sheepish after actually being a good friend for so long and that's why he is avoiding you. Perhaps he is having guilty feelings because he knows that he was in the wrong if it was a joke? Who knows, he could have been telling the truth when he said he liked you, and then took it back when he saw that you had another suitor - that might have intimidated him!
I think that it's going to take a bit more time for him to come around, but somehow I think he will, just give him a bit of time. When he does come around, ask him for that explanation - don't be a doormat, Okay? The truth always has a way of coming out eventually. Good Luck!
|
