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writes:OK so I've been talking to this guy for half a year now...but we no longer talk. But my friends say that we dont have wehistory because we were not boyfriend and girlfriend. How do they expect me to accept this. This guy has played a big part in my life, I can't just pretend he was never there. But anyways I just wanted to know if my friends were right. Do we not have history just because we weren't boyfriend and girlfriend? Reply to this Question
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (14 May 2008):
YES YOU DO HAVE A HISTORY!!
A history is a past with someone- whether that be with a friend or a bf/gf. You and your friends have a history, the friends who are telling you you dont have a history with this guy.
But yes, you do have a history with him, a history of chating and being friends, and sharing deep feelings for each other. Its very understandable that you cant move on just like that...he was a major part of your life!!!
I have no idea why you friends think what they think...because they arent right. and they dont seem very understanding.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 May 2008):
 It is just a play on words only and what happened is a fact which you cannot deny.
History or not , no one can change the facts.
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