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writes:I like this guy at work. How can I let him know without being too foward or unprofessional? Any tip? I'm super shy around guys. (I've been turned down several times before)
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (14 May 2008):
 What I always did was ask for help with something. I am a bit shy as well. Just be flirtatious but subtle about it. Smile, laugh, talk... I wouldn't just tell him you like him though unless you have a feeling he might feel the same way. If you are really brave you can ask him out to a movie or lunch or something. A lot of times what I would do was say "God I want to see that movie so bad. All my friends have already seen it." Hopefully it would work out like in my case where he says, "I haven't seen it either." Then you ask if he would like to. Of course not everything happens perfectly like that. But asking for help works well. You can talk while he's helping you out. Make sure to make eye contact and smile :) Good luck !
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reader, binhquangdao +, writes (14 May 2008):
 be honest to him and be yourself dont' be shy around him and just flirt a lil bit with him to see how far he goes.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (14 May 2008):
 Well. do you have a reason to be working together? A common project maybe? That would work. If that doesn't work, have you considered a "chance encounter" in the company cafeteria? If you're feeling a little more bold, you could suggest an innocent Friday lunch (you and him alone, or perhaps a small group if you are more comfortable going that way).
...of course, there's always the company water-cooler meet, then a small-talk...
Good luck -- just think confidence!
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reader, Angel/Devil15 +, writes (14 May 2008):
 Hey I'm Angel/Devil15 and I'm going to give to advice from both sides of my personality
Angel says: be coy and stare at him from across the room and then when he looks hold his gaze a couple seconds and then look down ... then in a little while do it again. Do it a few times and then see if he comes over and talks to you.
Devil says: Wear somthing SEXY !!! Be straight forward and tell him he's cute be like "Hey cutie wanna go to dinner?"
or just go and ask him out . Another tip: Smell good men love that :D
O:D ANGEL DEVIL ]:D--
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