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writes:Heya, Im a young adult who has had a couple of boyfriends, and im very sure im comfortable with my sexuality. However, sometimes when I masturbate I like to think about girls. However out of that situation, in my day to day life, I really do not find women attractive in that way at all. The thought of being with one really disgusts me. Is this normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009): Something about seeing another chick get off is hot because it's like you can imagine how good the action is… seeing a woman being pleasured is nice because you can imagine the pleasure as if it were you… doesn't mean you want to touch a chick or anything (yucky).
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): I think it is the girls reaction to what the man is doing to her that turns you on. That is normal. It's like you want to be that girl.
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (14 May 2008):
 Perfectly normal.
It's often far easier to visualise sex that way. I'm most definitely heterosexual, but I can see the sexiness of other women and imagine it were me being that sexy, if you see what I mean (it's difficult to describe, and I don't think that really sums it up properly). Men aren't "sexy" - they can be desirable, loveable, exciting, arousing (sometimes) but never "sexy".
Of course I can't see your particular fantasies, but I wonder whether it's you who IS that sexy woman, not you who desires that sexy woman when you masturbate. You become her. You don't "want" her.
Maybe?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): Well "the thought of being with one" obviously isn't too disgusting for you.
Maybe it's just a little fetish?
I think even straight people fantasize about the same sex. I wouldn't know because I'm bisexual, but I have heard it's extremely normal.
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reader, les  +, writes (14 May 2008):
What thoughts do you have about girls?
I think its perfectly normal to be turned on by any sexual act, wether between boy and girl, girl and girl, or boy/girl by themselves. If you were watchin girl on girl porn and became turned on by that, I'd say its more of a response to a sexual act being performed than you being turned on by two girls with each other. Similarly, if you were watching a girl with herself, I would say the same thing.
Maybe you're just thinking about the sexual act (and its easier to picture girls b/c you are one and you can related better to that image) to turn yourself on instead of fantasizing about them in the sense that you want to be with them. Does that make sense?
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