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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating someone for four months now and I do not know how to bring up sex to her. I do not want to pressure anything but I just want to bring it up as a possibility for the near future?Any help would be much appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): Well, how about, "I feel that at this stage we're really comfortable with each other and grown up enough to talk about this - I'd like to increase the physical side of our relationship, because I love you, and when you're ready, I would like to make love. Right now, I just want to talk about it, so I know how you feel and I can respect your limits, and we can share any concerns we have."Or some variation thereof. Sex is a big deal for girls because of the possibility of pregnancy and it is theorized that girls invest more in sexual activity than guys; so making sure she knows you won't push her, and that you're mature enough to know about protection, will be very reassuring for your girlfriend. She'll know she has a good guy who loves her.
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