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writes:I'm only young, but have gotten turned over a couple of times already, what with girls cheating on me etc.I've kind of come up with this kind of theory there 'are no rules to life', other than avoid being the loser.For instance if you do the cheating you ain't going to be the one doing the hurtingWhat do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, BlondeBabe x +, writes (16 May 2008):
 By the way let me know how you get on k
Thank you x
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reader, BlondeBabe x +, writes (16 May 2008):
Dont let your bad experienced hold you back, i believe there is a perfect perosn out there for everyone so dont loose hope.
Learn from you bad experiences and try looking for a girl that is different from the ones that you have dated in the past, im young as wel and i know the feeling!
Good luck x
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reader, gayuncleandy  +, writes (14 May 2008):
 I think that is flawed logic to get away with unacceptable and selfish behavior. You would be hurting someone else in the same way you have been hurt. It doesn't make sense to punish an innocent third party. The way to find a faithful partner is to be faithful yourself. If you want love and happiness, go about your relationships with that intent, not to hurt. There are no 'rules' to life apart from what you think is right. Don't give that up because without it there is very little left.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): Its perfectly o.k to make up your own rules for life.Rules like do not lie are outdated in this day and age and originate from the bible.Its a 'dog eat dog' world and youve already seen it at your young age.Good luck
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reader, lexilou +, writes (14 May 2008):
 Dont let bad experiences change you into a cheat and a liar and a player. Fine if you want casual relationships but always be honest about this first. If you find someone you truly love and she loves you hopefully you wont cheat and wont even want to. Break this pattern now as it could alter the way you feel about relationships all your life x x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (14 May 2008):
If you do the cheating you won't get cheated on - you'll just cause hurt and pain and make her want to go and cheat on the next nice guy she meets.
This is exactly the same as "I carry a knife for protection." It's stupid and only ends up with more people getting stabbed.
If you don't want to commit to a relationship and want to go round dating or playing the field for a bit then that's fine as long as you are honest with the girls you meet and don't lead them on in order to get them into get into bed.
I'm sorry you've picked bad girls so far, but don't become a cheater. Learn from how hurt you felt, and never do it. Don't take revenge on innocent girls as it's a slippery slope to a nasty place.
Good Luck!! xx
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