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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I became friends with a guy through a good friend. Eventually, this guy friend would call his brother on 3-way and we would occassionally talk to one another. And sometimes we would all hang-out, my female friend, me and the two guys. Well, eventually I fell off with the female friend and I stayed in contact with the two guys. They often would try to set up dates so that all 3 of us would hang out. They would arrange things so that I would meet the two of them at their apartment and then we would leave from there to go to a movie. I told them that I did not feel comfortable with this arrangement and they thought that I was acting "crazy" and being "uptight" and that other female friends had no problem hanging with the two of them. One claimed, that a female friend hung with 5 guys and she was the only girl. I said that is very unusual if it is true. I never really talked to these guys much but they would always call me trying to arrange so that all 3 of us could hang out, and I would flake out every time. I sensed that they had an ulterior motive. They were a bit too pressed to get me hang with the two of them. I told my mother about this and she suspects that they might have been trying to get me alone to rape me... I've known one of the guys for so long and I can't believe he would try to do something like that and think he can get away with it. I cut this guy friend out of my life because he would talk bad about me behind my back. And tell all of the personal things I told him about myself going on in my life. He started sending these text messages pleading that we should stay friends..but I don't understand WHY he wants me in his life when he goes behiind my back and say viscious things saying i am 'weird', and that like to argue too much. He was literally pleading saying that he 'loved me' so we can stay friends..what is going on with this guy?
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (15 May 2008):
 sounds to me you should leave well alone and get on with youre life and forget about this whole mess, i can see youre confusion and it does sound really strange..best thing is to walk away from this more important things in life than having to deal with that.. that my opinion aphex xxx
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