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*vilast attack
writes:I have a problem , I cant seem to get this feeling of doubt out of my head with the women I love. I feel one day that she will never part with me, and the next just by a change of tone in her voice sends me thinking I have to look for some one new? I need some advice on how to deal with this emotional state? Why cant I trust the women I love? Does every man go through this? Please help me put this state behind me. ( confused Man ) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): My boyfriend seems to have this problem... badly. He's very insecure with himself, and always thinks that I'm going to leave him for someone "better." It sounds like you're going through the same thing. I think you just need to weed out some of those insecurities and then it will be easier to trust her.
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reader, jinxx +, writes (14 May 2008):
 You're insecure, and it happens to the best of us! I was the same way in the past, and honestly, it helps to have a loving person in your life who will understand your insecurities and not hold them against you, and help you feel more secure with yourself and in the relationship. I think instead of going overboard in your own head, you should talk to who you're with now, and let them know how you feel about yourself, the relationship, and where you see things going. It's hard to be where you are and it only gets better by talking about it.
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reader, Hotstuff_405  +, writes (14 May 2008):
I think you are insecure. I dont think that everyman goes through that. you just need to be a bit more sure of yourself and what you have to offer. If this woman loves you to then you all shouldnt have trust issues.
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