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writes:okay i think my frend is a les she told me she fingers herself and sometimes feels she wants to "do" a girl she is 12 like me is she a les or just desperate or just going thru girly changes
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx and u probably guessed it was more about me but i am having friend problems and lots of them well thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx and u probably guessed it was more about me but i am having friend problems and lots of them well thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): Well most teenages go threw that phrase (i am lol) But it doesn't matter if she is or isn't. She might be dropping hints.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): as long as she does not get sexual on you and constantly trying to get something to happen it should be ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): "fingering" herself does not make her a lesbian.That's called "masturbation" and almost everyone does it despite their sexuality.I can tell you're young. You seem extremely close-minded.Even if she is a lesbian, bisexual, whatever, it does not mean she's "desperate". What the heck?I don't even see why it would matter in the least, because she's your friend and you should be there to support her no matter what.www.outproud.org is a website you can go to to glean some information about the subject of sexuality.
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reader, NaomiRose  +, writes (14 May 2008):
 If your friend is only 12, the chances are she is just going through a phase. Everybody goes through this at some stage of their life. Why not subtly ask her what she thinks about her sexuality, if you don't feel comfortable then just leave it.
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (14 May 2008):
 Yes; maybe; maybe; and maybe. In that order.
Does it actually matter? She's your friend, and she's at the age when the body, the hormones and the emotions are developing and are about as reliable as a chocolate teapot.
She's your friend. I'll say it again. That's important. It's far more important than her particular sexuality. Listen and give her your thoughts if she asks for them, but never, never pass judgement on what she tells you of her own feelings. Just tell her how you would feel, if you want to reveal your own feelings and desires, otherwise just be a good listener.
And, knowing something of young teenagers (I was one once, believe it or not!), she may only have said it to see if it shocked you.
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