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writes:Hey please help.I broke with my boyfriend and we have had our fights. We had a very big one day. We called each other names and that is so not me. He called me after the fight, but of course i hung up on him and i regret it. Now he doesn't call me anymore. I feel stupid because i am scared what he went through with me that he's not gonna try again. I don't want to call him and apologize because he really made me mad and i am supposed to be mad at him. His birthday is coming up, he's not going to be here, but should i write him a text? I don't know what to do. I am supposed to be mad but i want him back so bad. Any suggestions? Please help.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (15 May 2008):
 I don't know the guy so I can't say how he will react. If he doesn't answer the phone then yeah leave a voice mail for him. If he doesn't call back then maybe he needs more time to get over it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits not that pride or anything its just i don't know what to expect when i call him.. hes been going out but thats him always and i don't want him to get rude with me becuz i hung up on him i was thinking of just leaving a voice msg on his fone without let it ring and if he want call bk then i guess fight over.. i just don't know what to expect... thanx for any advice :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits not that pride or anything its just i don't know what to expect when i call him.. hes been going out but thats him always and i don't want him to get rude with me becuz i hung up on him i was thinking of just leaving a voice msg on his fone without let it ring and if he want call bk then i guess fight over.. i just don't know what to expect...
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (14 May 2008):
Why do you feel you are supposed to be mad? And why can't you let it go? As someone who has messed up quite a bit in her life from getting mad you should trust me- call him. Don't ruin whatever future you could possibly have because of a fight. And definitely tell him happy birthday, it is the mature thing to do and shows you are above the petty fighting when you just apologize for what was said/done on your behalf and you want to wish him a happy birthday. Try not to say things in the heat of anger even though it is hard as hell, you almost always regret it later. Instead of hanging up say, I need my space for a few hours. I know it is too late for that now but you can remember for next time and definitely apologize. I understand the feeling that you should be angry and not let it go first, whatever the problem was about, but you need to. Especially since you say you want him back. Let go of your pride and call him. Good luck.
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