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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My anxiety issues are destroying my life and my relationship!

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4 December 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Hello I have some issues that I would like someone to give me an advice, I am a 27 years old woman, I have a wonderfull career and a wonderfull job and the best guy as a boyfriend. My problem is that I have been in this country for one year, and I have found it very dificult... (447 words)

I'm having an emotional affair with a married guy, I want to forget him and a player who's after me, what do I do?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I´m in love with a guy who ended up being married. We are having an almost emotional affair, since he´s long distance. I did not want to fall in love with him, but I did so that´s my misery. I´ve tried so hard to get him out of my heart and head, he keeps coming to me eve... (259 words)

I'm stressed from constantly being rejected because I am not sexy enough to be a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5859 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi 29 yaers no boyfreind ever and never being kissed may be i am not girlfreind material and what girlfreind material i don,t know? ilike guys who find me sexual attractive so i am left on the shelf but other girls are girlfreind .why do some guys like some that way and not ... (300 words)

Is fantasizing about other guys tantamount to being unfaithful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Ladies! Imagine you were in a faithful relationship when a dashing, debonair, handsome, lean and lithe, sensitive, passionate, caring, tall, good looking, cute man with nice buns, nice smile, deep voice, great shoulders (and what's more he thinks the world of you) - asked you ... (84 words)

Deep down I kinew she wasn't in love with me when we got engaged. Now I love another....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I got married a few years ago. Since the beginning it was an uphill relationship. I realize now that I was never in love with her, I just had allot of hope that she would change. I thought that I could change her. Deep down inside I know she was not in love with me when we ... (117 words)

I'm not so worried about the marriage and kids part, but not wanting to live with me feels like an insult!

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 28yrs and my boyfriend of 3 years is 39. We've had our up and downs for over a year since he told me he doesnt want to re-marry, have any more kids or even live together! He says he's found his freedom and enjoys his own company now. Our relationship has been a long ... (295 words)

Is he just letting me down gently?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently text a guy I am mad about to basically tell him how I feel. We have shared a lot of kisses in the past and he has always acted into me. I sent him a message asking if he wanted to come to my house and watch a dvd and stay over as I really like him. This was his r... (175 words)

She told me she would frequently hook up with her girlfriends and fool around with other guys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, well earlier today my girlfriend told me something that has been eating at me a fair bit. We only started dating about a month ago, and for close to a year before that she wasn't seeing any guys, wasn't interested in seeing guys, etc. So she told me she would ... (276 words)

My PC is full of pictures of me and my girlfriend... now she's dumped me and I feel so alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm really depressed and upset. My girlfriend of 3 years, whom I met at college, dumped me a few weeks ago saying she wanted to be on her own. We met in college in our final years and although I fancied her I didn't make a move because I was going out with someone else. O... (434 words)

Is my masturbation an addiction or a phase I'm going through?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - What`s up guys. I`ve got a question that im really concerned about. Here it goes: myself im 18years old and ive never had sex with a girl and don`t have a girlfriend. So to satisfy my sex appetite, i am used to masturbating a lot. Sometimes i can even jerk off 4 to 5 times a ... (90 words)

When a guy is checking out big boob porn, what is he thinking of his small chested GF?

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4 December 2008 (F) age 36-40 - When a guy is watching a porno with big breasted women, what is he thinking in that moment if his girlfriend has small boobs? What about afterwards? When they are watching, do they wish they could squeeze, lick and just play with big breasts? Do they feel unsatisfied that their ... (86 words)

Whats wrong with our relationship?

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I think my relationship is failing and I really need some advice on how to fix it. We have been dating 15 months now and it has been great, After about 12 months things just started to get repetitive...We can barely text each other now we have nothing to say! My g... (304 words)

Is this just an excuse in case he backs out of the divorce before it's final?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age - My BF of a few months thinks I'm being jealous and moody. His divorce will be final in 2 months, no kids. I get upset because I bring him everywhere with me, invite him everywhere and introduce him and he never does. He thinks its too soon and is afraid she and his family may ... (426 words)

I'm not sure if he likes me and I don't want anyone to know that I like him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I think this boy likes me and I like him too. When ever I get on the bus he laughs at me and jokes around with me, like poking me and that. I see him like every day at school and in the mornings and after school as he gets the same bus as me, he smiles and laughs at me... (382 words)

I want to ask her out, but she's so gorgeous and I don't look good.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Halo,i got lots of problem. Pls i need advice. i am 19, i have been always single till now. I am a little bit introverted, the shy type . Not so easy wid girls specially. But once i get friendly, i am mixed wid them. da problem is, now i love a girl so much, i love her for two ... (127 words)

Should I shave my pubic hair for a first time fingering?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im a fourteen year old girl, and today a boy asked me if id like him to finger me. i think i would, but i feel self conscious because i have very small boobs, only a 34AA/A. also, my friends say they shave all their pubic hair, but i dont. i dont mind shaving it all off at all, ... (79 words)

Breast pain and an irregular period...

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 15 year of age, i started my period when i was 13 and i have been very irregular like i can skip 6 months at time with no period! i am c cup in breast but the reason i am saying this is because recently my left breast has been hurting quite badly i will be sitting there ... (86 words)

How do I tell my Dad I'm scared that the guy who takes care of Grandpa wants to attack me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy who takes care of my grandpa, and one day when we were visiting my grandpa I was alone in the room with my grandpa and the guy and when I got up to leave the dude was like NO DON'T GO NOW!! in a very very creepy whiny voice. I got scared and left and told my mom ... (275 words)

I always have to have a boyfriend because I'm lonely and unloved if I don't.q

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, yeah I'm pretty young and I have this huge problem that affects me a lot and I need some help. I guess you could say that I always have to have a boyfriend because I'm lonely without one and I just don't feel loved. But the thing is...I haven't had a boyfriend in like 2 ... (245 words)

Should I marry this older man????????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i was a single parent for five years and i love my children so much. my son and daughter have been threw alot. i have moved them from home to home. i worked at places who don't pay enough and been putting up with thier father long enough...........so far things had changed. ... (238 words)

How do I convince people I don't have an eating disorder?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

4 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Everybody always says that I'm too skinny and are always trying to get me to eat more, but I don't think I'm too skinny. My boyfriend tells everyone that i'm healthy and my family tells them too but they still don't believe them. I'm a 14-year-old female, I'm 5'2 and ... (185 words)

My boyfriend and I have the perfect relationship.. except I'm wondering if he might be abusive.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is really hard for me to ask, and I really need some outside advice and opinions. My boyfriend and I are pretty much the ideal couple. I'm not just saying that, we really are. We would never lie to each other, we are best friends, we have so much fun together, we... (762 words)

I'm confused about discharge, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have been reading alot on here about a problem with discharge and im a bit confused. I just wondered if you are supposed to stop getting discharge after you have started your periods, or if it is at least supposed to happeen less often unless you are sexually aroused... (93 words)

Does it sound like my boyfriend is still in love with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me n my bf have been going out for nearly three months and one of his past ex's did some horrible things to him when he eas with her. Earlier today he was out with her and did not tell me till about an hour ago. She cheated on him 5 times and dumped him the day before valentin... (153 words)

How do I turn the tables on him?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend seems to have control of everything in our relationship. yes I do realize its because I've allowed him to but now its is like I don't even know myself anymore... how can I fix this? I can I show him that I'm strong and that I'm not going to do every little thing he ... (92 words)

How do I attract a boyfriend before I get any older and lonelier?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi how do i get a boyfreind when you overweight and shy and very low self estreem.but i am always getting by the guys the likes who always some one elea but never me.i am 30 yaers old,never had boyfreind once in my life and never even experence my kiss.its sound sad doesn,t ... (57 words)

How do we get her to see the truth about this guy?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My Sister In Law is in a terrible relationship with a guy who has been in prison twice, has a history of cheating, stealing, and lying. She is almost obsessed with him and now they are talking about getting married in less than 3 weeks. We have all tried talking to her but ... (105 words)

How can I break his heart into tiny little pieces?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey I'd really like a male perspective on my problem but would also appreciate female feedback as well... I've been in an on and off again realtionship with my daughter's father, during one of our "breakups" he decided to go and have another relationship with someone else she ... (311 words)

How do I get over this catastrophe? What should I do??

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4 December 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 18 and I've liked this one guy (we'll call him "Mike") for 2 years now and I constantly think about him, it's infuriating! The problem is... my best friend is dating him. For about a month now. Of course she asked me if it was okay and I told her it was but now I know that ... (178 words)

I felt my uncle was getting too "cosy" with me... now they want me over for Xmas but don't know if I should!

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4 December 2008 (F)

age - I was visiting my aunt and uncle for thanksgiving. My uncle was very happy to see me. When I was coming out of the room, he came in and wanted to ask me something. So after we talked, he wanted a hug, so I gave him one. Then he pulled my face towards his and tried to give me ... (126 words)

He proposed, that we break off the engagement and he move out. But that we still continue dating!!

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm at a real loss here -- My fiance' and boyfriend of the past 6 years has said he'd like to break off our wedding. We currently live together, and have for the majority of our 6 year relationship. Last December, seemed like the make or break moment in our relationship. We... (291 words)

Is love a one shot deal? I feel like I'm losing him and there's nothing I can do...

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, the first year of our relationship was rocky to say the least as he had something traumatic occur in his life that consequently made him unable to be close to anyone and he kind of just blocked me out. Anyway things got ... (587 words)

I just can't figure women out!

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some views here about a lovely woman I met a few weeks back. We had a few good dates and got along perfectly and shared some common interests and backgrounds. The last time I saw her, she introduced me to a friend of hers and we went on to meet a few other freinds ... (402 words)

Now that we're older, how do we formalise dating?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey - little bit confused, someone help. When we were younger, going out with someone was formalised by saying "will you go out with me?" It was simple and you knew exactly where you stood. Now that we're older, how do we formalise dating? There's a guy I like, we go for ... (81 words)

How do I bring balance to this relationship and this girl I so love and adore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Gawd...can someone give me some decent advice? I'm 35 and am seeing this beautiful girl that I absolutely love and adore. We've been seeing eachother for almost a year and we've had a lot of ups and downs, primarily arguing about stupid stuff. One big problem I have ha... (271 words)

My husband can masturbate but not have intercourse! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i am married for 3 years, but never have had intercourse. my husband was addicted to masturbation. now he wants to correct his act. but not able to penetrate. from the past 6 months we are trying in vain. he loses erection. can a man be able to masturbate but not penetrate? ... (197 words)

Is this bend normal or caused by masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - im22yrs boy.. i do masturbation dially when i take bath.. now my penis size is 15cm. but it was lightly bending .. is it normal for all boys..or because of masturbation it happens bend...?... (34 words)

I saw my sister naked, now I can't look her in the face!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - im22yrs boy.. i have one elder sister.. one day she came form bathroom in naked.. she tought not one in home.. but i was there.. i seen her body fully naked.. now im feeling very shy to see her face..help me..... (41 words)

Should I just tell him I like him, or wait and see next semester?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my friend (Who goes to a different college) introduced me to her guy friend who I now go to school with. And at first I thought he was kinda dorky and I wasn’t interested in him. But after that I started meeting him for breakfast with our groups of friends and we ... (258 words)

Should I spend Christmas Day with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I hope you can help. This sounds like a trivial dilemma but I have no one else to ask and I can't stop thinking about it. It has veen been waking me at night. My boyfriend and I decided to spend Christmas day together about 2 months ago. It will be my first one away from ... (205 words)

Armpit hair.... do all men find it arousing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Im 22 yrs old guy, right now working in private sector.. in my office most of girls wear sleeveless. in that somegirl have armpit hair.. if i saw that armpit hair i get arouse.. did this happening to all boys or not..... (42 words)

Oh my dear geeky man, please respond!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - It is slightly embarrassing for me to admit that we met online, on Craigslist. He asked for a strictly platonic activities partner, I answered. Well, in the end, due to scheduling differences we only went to the activity once. But he turned out to be one of the most amazi... (557 words)

Sometimes when we're just getting freaky, I tend to lose my erection!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I don't know if this is a problem, I'm 22 and I'm a horn dog. I get easily turned on, but if I'm not having sex and we're just getting freaky before we do anything, I tend to lose my erection, could this be because sometimes I get a little nervous or shy? I can stand naked ... (237 words)

I'm having trouble believing that he doesn't just want me for the sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi really hope there is someone who can advise me. I met a guy about a year ago online and have met up a couple of times since. We both work shifts and find it hard to meet especially as we also live a good few hours drive away. The second time we met things got quite heated ... (172 words)

Where do I put my hands and how do I stand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi when your boyfriend puts his hands up your top, how should you stand, where do you put your hands on him? i feel comfortable with this btw, but i just need some advice lol thanks xxx ... (41 words)

How do I let her know that I'm diggin' her as way more than a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've known my best chick friend for 8 yrs now (since sophomore year in college) and I'm completely in love with her! I've never had much luck with the ladies (didn't even start dating til sophomore year of college) but this is one lady I want that luck with! I wanna date her, ... (142 words)

If you were told that today is the last day of your life... what would you do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I wanna plan the most amazing romantic night for me and my ex... we love each other so much, but life has torn us both apart, this is your last night together and I want it to be perfect, so I want to take some of your ideas of the perfect night with your loved ... (71 words)

Is it worth ringing him??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it worth ringing him? Any advice would be appreciated! - I'm in love with a guy who definitely is in control of our relationship! - He only rings when he can or it's convenient for him, he only sees me when he is available to do so and he only kisses me when he says goo... (109 words)

The other woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend and I have been goin out for 5 months but within this 5 months, there is this girl that wrote to me and said that she talks to him too and they met on the site that all of us are on. So I talked to him about it and he said he didn't know ... (313 words)

Taking it slow is nice, but this snails pace is TOO slow!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for a little while now and i really love him and i know he loves me. He's had sex with two girls before and so is determind to take thing really slowly with me but i dont want him to be taking it this slowly.Ive tried sending him dirty texts etc and ... (101 words)

I want her to enjoy sex as much as I do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i cant sataify my lady friend the way she satifys me? i recenty was left by the women i loved 4 month ago. i did everything for her and treated her like a queen. i started dating a women who i enjoy spending time with she makes me laugh and keeps my mind off of the ex. for s... (166 words)

Sometimes he rings, sometimes he doesnt...

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Sometimes he rings, sometimes he won't! - HELP!! - I'm involved with a guy who I only see now and then as we live in different cities - he knows I would do anything for him (even give him money)- but he doesn't really show me his emotions although he has suggested going ... (106 words)

He no longer messages me and the silence is killing me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i know this guy through facebook. and having good conversation and messaging with each other. flirting with each other. he say that he into me, but everytime he say so, i will just say that it is impossible. he always the one to take the first move to message or call me. if he ... (288 words)

His motto is enjoy them and then forget them.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everybody. I am 20 years old Indian girl. I have a frnd here in canada. He clearly says that he just wants to have fun. He want to have sex without any attachment. He says I have slept with many girls but you are different from all of them. He says after sleeping i forget ... (196 words)

I want to have sex with her just once!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Myself a physiotherapist, married with achild. I got in contact with an unmarried girl 10 years younger to me.She is very innocent and a beautifull girl. I was attracted towards her breasts. She also liked me but not sexually.She said that she wants to have healthy freindship ... (173 words)

I have been burned so many times I am afraid to open up my heart

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in and outside relationships where my life was shut dow and heart broken into pieces by men.i have been ued as sex object for the long time.two men i thought would be my husband have just lost me like hot potatoes few days after they had sex with me to their admost ... (127 words)

Since his stroke my man has become intolerant of my kids

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - He cannot find love for my kids! I have been living with this man for over four years. Everything was great til he had a stroke at the age of 44in June of 2007. Since then he has had no tolerance what so ever for my girls 11 and 6. They cannot even sing. He says I am way to... (229 words)

He didnt tell me his violent ex was back in the country

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age - today i have found out that my ex partner who said he loved me only 2 weeks ago,knew his ex wife has returned to england sometime ago and never had the balls to tell me,but at the time we was together and was together 5yrs but since may of this year he has been somewhat ... (233 words)

After how badly she treated me should I take her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So, this all starts a little over a year ago. I met this cute girl and I began talking to her, and getting to know her. We connected instantly, and became good friends. I asked her out, she accepted. Then we dated for about 10 months. I had fallen in love with her. Absolutely ... (714 words)

We've only just started dating and now her ex wants her back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a bit down and need some help. Two weeks ago I started chatting to a women who I met on an online dating site, we have been talking every day and night since. I have seen her three times in total, the last time I met her was Tuesday night, when I went round her flat a... (159 words)

Oh Baby, I'm trying to concieve!!!

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My Sweetie and I have been trying to concieve for about 4 months now, and we have had no luck. It makes me so sad everytime i see that negative sign or only one line on a preg test. I know it can take up to two year to get pregnant but we are both 20, and healthy. We typically ... (109 words)

I love him too much to walk away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i have a very serious and heartbreaking situation. ive been with my fiance for almost a year and the first like 3 or 4 months we were always happy we never fought. but now it seems like that all we do right now. he is in a halfway house and can only come home on weekends and ... (219 words)

Do I have a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've met this girl on the first week of our semester. Everyday, when we're at the school, she really caughts my attention. She's a simple girl, my ideal girl. As time pass by, we had a chance to talk with each other, have a lunch together and etc. One day we had a simple chat, ... (234 words)

Doubts over long distance relationship....

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - For the past month or two I have been having serious doubts about whether to proceed with my long distance relationship of 3 years. I used to feel like there was no doubt that this man was my soulmate and we'd both look forward to our future together but now he is the one who ... (871 words)

The porn and the ex have to go! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my husband but he thinks it's nomal for him to contact his ex girlfriend after the hell she put us through. He also thinks it's nomal for him to watch porn by himself while he is married he loves double d's for breast and he likes thick hair and I'm neither. I want him ... (89 words)

What should I do next? And what steps can I take to finally move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - 7 months ago the love of my life left me after 4 years together. We were just a couple of kids when we met, I'm 21 now but I was only 16 when we met he was 17, we grew up together you could say and were like two peas in a pod, completely inseparable. I never thought I'd have a ... (1061 words)

Should I show her father her facebook page so that he knows what she's doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm asking for advice on my bf daughters, they are teenagers ( so difficult enough) and the youngest who is 15 goes out and gets drunk on a regular basis, her mum and her dad (my bf) think that she has stopped this and now i found some information that she hasn't in fact she is ... (165 words)

Does he really love me or am I just wasting my time with him?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please guys help me,am in a relationship for o ne year and 3 months am 24 and he is 28.the time we started we were in the same town and later i move to another town with work and i go evry weekend for classes to his town.may problem with this guy is he dont really initiate time ... (283 words)

Is he really 'into' me or is he just testing me?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this guy from Facebook. At first we just chat via emailing. But later, we exchange phone number. We are having a good conversation. We flirt at each other through phone messaging. He the one always hurried to meet each other. But I always rejected him because I’m a bit ... (494 words)

Should I let him come round for sex whenever he feels like it?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i kicked my partner of many years out cause he has a drug habit, but he is taking it all in his stride and thinks it is holiday for him to get the best of both worlds. being out with his mates and just poppin to see me and the kids when he feels like it or for sex. he says he ... (95 words)

Why does she still keep in contact with him?

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend cheated on me and I forgave her, but she still keeps in contact with him. What should I do?... (22 words)

What can I do to fix this problem?

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm having extreme difficulty climaxing during sex; which i feel is for the most part related to habitual masturbation when i was younger, and rather frisky if i do say so myself. I've been really open with this to friends/family (I don't mean to say i just pop off about... (153 words)

Why doesn't he close his eyes?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend doesn't close his eyes when kissing what does it mean?... (13 words)

Am I falling out of love?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone I've been with my bf for 9 months now, i really love/d him (i'm not sure anymore). I couldnt go for a day without seeing him or calling him, i did that every single day but. Even I, myself thought i'm too emotionally dependent on him and i'm being needy and e... (239 words)

Respect, loyalty, kindness - a recipe for a life of loneliness?

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm caring, friendly, loyal and intelligent. I'm also told I have a good sense of humour and charisma. Unfortunately the major thing I lack is confidence. The last girl I was interested in, I spent a lot of time chatting and getting to know her better, showing an inter... (218 words)

Those who have been cheated on, how did you find out?

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Those of you who know that you have been cheated on by a long term partner, how did you find out?... (21 words)

Things have got bad with my girlfriend, and I'm beginning to have feelings for another girl! Advise, please!

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and things have been ok but recentley things have got bad and its argument after argument. I have a good friend who is female and I have been going out with a lot recentley but I am begining to feel as though I have feelings for her ... (104 words)

I have done wrong, please help me fix this!

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a wrong relation for last 3 years. Please read my story and guide me.i was working in a company. I had huge crush on my MARRIED coworker. He also used to flirt with me. Once he asked to hug and kiss me. I denied becoz i wanted to keep myself pure 4 my future ... (742 words)

Are there any foods that will help my breasts grow?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i am a 32A and have been since i was 10. My breasts havent grown any in the past 5 years is that normal? I keep waiting for some miracle growth spurt but nothing is happening! I know i am still growing (im 15) but idt anything else is gonna change. Is there a way to get ... (69 words)

He's had over 50 sexual relations?!?!?!?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for a bit over a year now. I have fallen in love with him and completely have devoted myself and my life to him. BUT-- Just a day ago, I found out before he knew me he had taken part in over 50 sexual relations (not sex, just lots o... (195 words)

Is he seeing someone else? Should I just forget about him?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there l need help. l don't know if my boyfriend is seeing somebody else we have been dating for 2 months sometimes he doesn't call for say 3 days and then after that he calls saying he misses me.we meet and everything is normal but yesterday was different he had spent 2... (174 words)

I feel like I've wasted my time and energy in college because of her and just want some closure!

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I arrived in college as a transfer student the same year a new professor in my department was hired. I thought she was attractive and interesting, so I began casually getting closer to her. I felt we hit it off the first time I spoke with her in her office - sitting closely, ... (754 words)

Is it okay for me to eat meat in front of my vegan girlfriend?

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4 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I just found out that a girl I recently started dating is a vegan. She doesn't eat dairy (like cheese) and nothing from animals. I mean eat meat almost everyday. Is it ok for me to eat meat in front of her? ... (45 words)

Am I losing my husband?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband and i are both twenty yearsold and just married in october. Sadly to say, we havent been having the best newlywed relationship. i work,he stays home with our 3yr old. my hours vary at work, so when i come home i cook dinner and dose off from being so tired. everyday ... (99 words)

To stay friends, or risk the friendship for something else?

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts, I'm looking for advice as to a very strange situation for me. Question is at the very bottom, but I really feel that a story is needed to highlight why this warrants anonymous help. I'm 17, go to an international school in Britain. I'd say I'm introverted... (751 words)

I want to date him but I'm not sure how to proceed! Is he a rapist?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I hooked-up with a guy when I was 20 but he had some sex issues. We messed around tons, but he couldn't get it up. I told my friend (who thought he was hot) and she had sex with him. She claimed that he basiclly raped her. I believed her but was cautious because I knew this guy ... (149 words)

Is he thinking of proposing?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for technically a year now. We have been really close friends, best friends, for over 6 years and have been in college during this time. He is getting ready to graduate this fall and I graduate next spring. I have dated a few other guys while in ... (459 words)

My partner of 15 years is treating me like, well, sh*t... please advise!

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner of 15 years who I love and very much do everything for like a 50's house wife treats me like shi.... I am in my late 30's and he is in his 60's. When I ended up in Sept this year having a brake down and I had to live on our boat for awhile to write and think about ... (397 words)

Should we keep spending his money?

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife an I are about the same age, 28. We've been married for 8 years and have 2 kids. She has an older friend who is nearing 40, and has known the guy before highschool. We live in a town of about 3000ppl so you get to know just about everyone within 10-15 years of your own ... (575 words)

She thinks we should break up, help!

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Have been in relationship with alady for about 10yrs. we haven't had sex tog' and recently i fail to communicate with her for about 3wks and she call saying that may be i am comparing here with someone else or am thinking smthng else or may be Gods plan for us to break. is what ... (88 words)

Am I in love with my best friend?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This a bit long and I really hope I don't come off as a b**ch or clueless or a sl*t or anything like that, but here's the story: I moved to this area when I was ten (I'm now twenty-one) and I met my best friend (whom is a guy) at the community pool the summer before we were ... (509 words)

He told me that if I ever talk to him again, he is going to call the police.

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've asked this question before, but didn't go into a lot of detail. So here is my situation... I've liked this guy for 5 years now. Anywhoo, I knew him from high school. (back in the day) We knew of each other, but never spoken. Until.....now. I recently st... (524 words)

Should I confess my love even though it would stress her out?

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i have been waiting to ask this for some time but i was trying to decide on my own, but this decision is very important and i need to make the right one. Well there is a girl i have known since kindergarten but i was never really close to her until the last few years a... (315 words)

Does this mean that he likes me or am I crazy?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just moved in with a room-mate of mine and her friend used to come over every once in a while. Since I moved in he's been coming over regularly. Does this mean that he likes me or am I crazy?... (49 words)

Idealy, how long should I wait to have sex with this guy?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been split from my ex hubby for over a year now. I have dated a few guys but nothing special has happened, although I have been messed around a bit and have at times felt used :-( Anyhow, i have just started seeing this new guy. We are both in out thirties, and i really l... (199 words)

The girl I loved betrayed me and now I'm lost. How do I move on?

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I got out of a 1 1/2 year relationship 3 months ago and I feel like crap. My ex told me she fell in love with someone else she worked with and didn't love me anymore, and she hid this from me for a couple months prior to our split. This was prior to her birthday, prior ... (890 words)

I want to move on but I can't... what can I do with my ex girlfriend?

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I’ve gotten myself into a bit of a pickle. Apologies for the length of this post, it was only supposed to be two short paragraphs! My girlfriend and I broke up at the end of July this year after a year and eight months together. We're both at uni and share the same group o... (1221 words)

Should I forgive him after he cheated with my NIECE?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for almost 4 years. My husband cheated on me 2mts into the marriage with my niece. Yes, my niece. I forgave him and I thought we were growing together. Come to find out he cheated on me again with a women I don't know and got her pregnant. In 2008 she had ... (163 words)

My friend is spreading rumors about me, what should I do??

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this friend who is really mad at me right now. It all started last year when she was datin this guy. they only went out for a week and then she broke up with him. She says she broke up with him because he was a year younger and people were teasing her, but she really ... (114 words)

What does a guy do in my position???

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, picture this: Guy JUST breaks up with controlling girlfriend, guy goes out to a party that same night, meets new girl, someone he feels he gets along better with than previous girlfriend. As they're talking and look like they're getting ready to dance together, al... (149 words)

What a good positions for a girl who's larger?

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi... I'm having a little trouble... I recently fell in love with this girl unexpectedly anyway where becoming or trying to become sexually active but it's proving difficult as she's a large women. We just can't do it right... Things about her body are preventing or at... (123 words)

He wants to come home but I'm scared to give it a try! Help!

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice please. I have been married 4 years november have been seperated since july 25 secondary to finding out my husband has been cheating.We have a daughter who is 3 and i have a son who is 13.Are relationship has pretty much sucked the entire time although we fought ... (267 words)

I don't want him back, I just want to let it go! Words of wisdom, please!

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4 December 2008 (F)

age - Ok, its been 4 years but I am still having trouble getting over my marriage breaking up. I had no idea the affair was happening, thought we were good together. I think what bothers me most is that when I found out about the affair (unfortunately our son found out first) he ... (310 words)

Love is found at the strangest times, I need help....

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - OK People this is deep and I need help. This will be made into a Novel one day, so don't be surprised. I am 37 years old, I have had more than my share of realtionships, both good and bad. But this one has me going in a whole different state I have never been in. Please ... (602 words)

Should I keep what I feel about him to myself until the time is right?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone : ), I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years but I've known him forever. I'm so madly in love with him. I wanna have his baby, so bad I know we'd both be great parents. I know that I'm not ready financially though. I just can't wait to have our baby... (197 words)

My best friend has been making sexual comments to my girlfriend!

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My best freind has been hiting on my girlfreind an making sexual comments towrds her. she complained to me bout it and i don like it when he does (he does it right in front of me) i told him to knock it off and he got totaly pissed at me, what should i do.... (55 words)

I like him a lot and I'm in love with him but I'm scared of people judging me!

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well i like this guy lot and i dont feel right being with him iam afraid that pepole will judge me and he said he wants to marry me and have kids with me and hes going to ask me to marry him on chrismas and i dont know what to do he treats me right and i am in love with him ... (82 words)

Should I work full time and go to school full time??

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a full time job and recently decided that i wanted to go back to school. I'm going to be a part time student but wanted to go full. i cant really work part time because i need the money. Should i work full time and go to school full time?? i can take some classes on line ... (82 words)

I want her back. Is there anything I can do other than wait?

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay. I am 18 years old. I just a girlfriend 1 and 1/2 months ago and it's already done for. For the first month we absolutly were obsessed with each we said we loved each other every night ECt. We went on dates a lot. We have never kissed. But she was more obsessed with me ... (121 words)

How do I deal with this and regain the trust between us?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone, i hope someone here can help me, im with a man for a over a year now, when we first started dating he was going through a messy breakup with his ex of five years, 2 months on and they had finally parted ways. he put his house on the market and moved out of her... (449 words)

I want an amazing first kiss... so how do I do it?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone this is my problem. I'm 16 and have never been kissed. There's this guy I like and may go out with soon, and I'm so ready for a boyfriend. But I don't really know how to kiss. I and want an amazing first kiss. any advice?... (53 words)

I've lost my desire for sex!

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 21 year old female and i have two kids... 16 month old twins.... I know congrats. but i have some concerns because when i found out i was pregnant with my boys, and all threw my pregnancy, and even now i have no desire or interest in having sex at all... No pleasure ... (61 words)

How would you rate the durex vibrating rings?

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Anyone ever try the durex vibrating rings? How do they feel? They worth the 10 bucks? Looking for girls opinions mainly but guys with any tips give us a shout;)... (31 words)

Does he just have cold feet because our relationship is serious?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 13 months and we are best friends and we never had a fight. We have so much in common we snowboard, surf and hang out all the time.... he just said to me he needs some space, and I dont know how to take it.. so I am giving it to him... ... (126 words)

My boyfriend is a mess socially - how can he get through the festive season?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, i'm dreading christmas with my family and my great boyfriend of 2 years, because he is so bad socially. i come from a large family and i am talkative, self-confident, a little loud and i can talk to anybody any place any time. i get on with most people. my boyfriend is an ... (436 words)

Was I wrong when I said what I said? How can I fix things?

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4 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - H, i'm in a kinda weird situation and i need ur opinion on what i should do. we've been friends since high school and now we go to the same college. we kinda have a good thing going on for us. we kissed one time and we've been hanging out lots. we actually planned to go on a ... (196 words)

My BFF likes him too, should I just forget about him?

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4 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So the guy i like is amazing you could even call him a rare package (yes i know i'll probably meet more who i think the same of, but this is the one right now). I think that he likes me too because he's always trying to show affection to me by grabbing my hand etc............ ... (155 words)