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writes:Myself a physiotherapist, married with achild. I got in contact with an unmarried girl 10 years younger to me.She is very innocent and a beautifull girl. I was attracted towards her breasts. She also liked me but not sexually.She said that she wants to have healthy freindship with me. I asked her for kiss. She did it with me. She was obsessed for me. But i always told her that i see her as a frnd and i have a family. But out of attraction i asked her for sex without any emotional attachment. I met her physically 4-5 times, but she never allowed me went her inside. Now i am mad for her i want to have sex with her. She says that she loves me but can't do sex with me. She wants to keep herself for her husband.I also wants that she should get married to some good guy and have a healthy life, but i want sex with her before her marriage , once. What should i do?
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reader, Neeraj060  +, writes (8 December 2008):
 It's natural dude for a girl to get attracted to great men,but it doesn't give you the right to go ahead and do what you like ....hurting other's feeling.Get a grip on your life what would you think if your wife had a relationship just for FUN with someone else?
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 Honestly! Are you insane? What part of NO do you not understand? If you like this girl so much then you should respect her. She is just a conquest to you! You are married!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GO HOME TO YOUR WIFE! SHAME ON YOU
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reader, sweetheart43  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!just stop and tell yourself that your a married man. think: "is this young girl worth all the heart ache that my wife will feel when she found out about my affair?" i think not......besides you need to be in control!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): What if your wife found some other guy's penis attractive?
Would it be ok if she slept with him?
Answer this question of mine.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 What should you do? You should take an ice cold shower first, then take a looooong look at yourself in the mirror. Is this the face of an honorable man? Is he a man to be admired? Is he a man whose wife and family can be proud of?
Now look down between your legs. Is what you have there going to rule your life? Is that what is doing the thinking for you?
Look, there are always going to be people out there who are very attractive and who you might desire or fantasize about. That's not a crime or a bad thing. What IS a bad thing is to hear a woman, a GIRL actually, say "NO!" and you not pay her wishes any attention. That's the sign of a selfish and potentially dangerous predator.
NO! means NO!
Cut contact with this poor girl and start getting the blood back to your large head, the one you're SUPPOSED to be thinking with. And for heaven's sake, think of your wife. How would you feel if she kissed another man, let alone slept with him? Have some empathy for others.
I hope you do the right thing. Take care.
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reader, apathyslastkiss +, writes (4 December 2008):
 My friend, you seem to have a serious problem. Do you not even understand the sanctity of marriage? YOU ARE MARRIED, and in a marriage, you keep yourself completely for your wife. You have committed adultery by fooling around with this other woman. Do you not see the evil in what you're doing? You have explored your lust with another woman, and in doing so, have disgraced yourself, and your wife. What should you do? NOT have sex with her at all - ever! Why is that not plain to you? You speak of how you're not emotionally attached to her -- does that make it alright? NO! It's obvious anyway that you are emotionally attached, despite what you say. It began with admiring her beauty, then a kiss, then sexual exploits -- do you see the downward spiral here? You have fed your lust, and your lust for this woman grows each time you humour it! Stop this immediately! You must not have sex with this woman! What you should do is: apologize to her for compromising her purity, cut yourself off from her so you're not tempted as much, and confess to your wife this evil that you have done. Your sexuality is meant to be explored with your wife, and only your wife. How have you overlooked this? You seriously need to re-examine your priorities, and take a long hard look into yourself and confront whatever is driving you to seek sexual pleasure outside of your marriage. God be with you. If you believe in God, confess this to him, and ask for His help in mending your marriage - He will be there for you. He is loving, and willing to help.
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (4 December 2008):
 What you should do is stop any and all contact with this young lady. You say that the two of you want to be friends with each other and that is all lovely. However, it seems that the two of you (and you in particular) are unable to resist temptation. By continueing to talk to her and see her you continually stoke the fires of your desire and frustration. Certainly by being intimate with her, even if it does not involve actual intercourse, is not helpful to the 'just friends' attempt. Now you are just about obsessed with her and want to overcome her will to keep herself for her future husband. The very best thing you can do for her, and yourself and YOUR WIFE AND CHILD is to cut all contact with her. Once you are away from her the fires will slowly die down. It may take some time, but it will happen. You need to concentrate on your family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): Why are you trying to ruin both women? you know she wants to wait till she's married, you know you got a wife and a child. Your the sort of man all women should run a mile away from! I feel for your wife and child very much
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