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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: Ok, I´m in love with a guy who ended up being married. We are having an almost emotional affair, since he´s long distance. I did not want to fall in love with him, but I did so that´s my misery.I´ve tried so hard to get him out of my heart and head, he keeps coming to me even when I want to get away. I´ve cried b/c I know this cannot be, so I´ve dated other guys, go out, meet other people and yet can´t get him out off my system.Now, a guy is being hitting on me lately, he´s HOT and I admit I want him physically to the extent of satisfying my sexual need on not having the one I want to forget. To my precious luck, he´s been described as many as a ladies man. I feel like I can´t get it right. To make things worst they´re both military and the married guy is somewhat jealous of me getting along with other guys when I tell him I do so, which to me is unfair since he´s OK with his wife while I´m here drying myself. What can i do, should I give in even for the sexual thing with this other guy and take one thorn with another thorn. Please advice? I really want to get out, I´m sick of all of it?Another thing, what if the two guys ever meet and they end up talking and knowing about me?
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