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writes:Ladies! Imagine you were in a faithful relationship when a dashing, debonair, handsome, lean and lithe, sensitive, passionate, caring, tall, good looking, cute man with nice buns, nice smile, deep voice, great shoulders (and what's more he thinks the world of you) - asked you out. Well - you'd turn him down, wouldn't you? Would you however fantasise about the aforesaid fellow when making love to your partner, or would this very act be considered as being 'unfaithful'? Your time starts: now!!! Many thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): Well how ever handsome he is,if he is trying to get into my head and pick the pieces of my brain,I wouldn't even give him a single thought of the day.
Does your ego want to be in her bed with her partner as a threesome because she turned you down?Lets say your face flashes in her head for whatsoever reason.I am darn sure it will be wiped after the multiple orgasms from her partner.
"Your time starts now...?" What are you- my time keeper?.your attitude sucks!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (5 December 2008):
 It's totaly fine. If you make a habit out of that, well, that's just rude. As long as you're giving your boyfriend some nights where he can just be him and not Johnny Depp - I mean, the guy who asked you out - then you're cool. Just never tell him. There are some things that just don't need to be brought up. (Besides, you know that you've been Jessica Alba in his mind a sesh or two... just call it even.)
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 December 2008):
 OOOOOOH!!! I want that guy to make a pass at me! It would be great for my ego. Of course I would squash his hopes like a bug, but I would feel hot for the rest of the day. And what's in my head at any time is no one's business but my own, unless I'm willing to share it. Why do you want to police your woman's thoughts?
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (5 December 2008):
Its not being unfaithful but it is tacky. It is one thing when you are sitting alone to think to yourself about him asking you out and how good it made you feel but thinking about other people during sex is tacky however not unfaithful.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (5 December 2008):
 You can fantasise about Brad pit during sex. It doesn't add up to being unfaithful. If anyone tells you it does, they are lying. A huge percentage of men and women think about someone else during sex. If it was a crime, there would be a lot of people banged up.
C xxxxxx
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