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anonymous
writes:i know this guy through facebook. and having good conversation and messaging with each other. flirting with each other. he say that he into me, but everytime he say so, i will just say that it is impossible. he always the one to take the first move to message or call me. if he do not message or call me for one day, i do not even bother at all (he use to complaint about this)after we first meet, i thought that he will not longer interested with me cuz he have a petite body eventhough he is taller, but i will look more bigger size than him although i'm not fat(some guy can't accept that their partner having a bigger size than him nor i can accept). however, things going normally (he calls, message). and he even say he wanna courting me. he say that he do not mind about the appearance. and he do something that make me so touching on my birthday! (i'm starting change my mind not to think about the body size and a little bit liking him).Things going to change after the second time we meet, he suddenly no message and not even a call from him (which he use to sent me a "goodnite" message to me every night). the silent treatment is killing me.. what he is thinking?? he not longer into me? or he juz mind about the body size? if he really mind about the body size, why don't juz he tell me? or he trying to playing game after he know that i started into him?please help.. because of this matter l'm having insomnia ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): I am confused.Why would you want to be friends with someone who is not even replying to your messages?
If I like a guy as a friend I would offer to be his friend.If he doesn't respond,I wouldn't even spare another thought.
Some guys like girls to message them,flirt with them,chase them etc.,Then they go and tell their friends that she is at the back of them.
you might have wanted him as just your friend.He would have a bloated male ego that makes him think you are interested romantically in him.
Dear he might be petite.His brain is not.He is definitely not stupid.He did affect your sleep didn't he?.Some men just like to be chased.It gives them a boost to their ego.
My question to you is -Aren't you worth much more than a guy who is playing mind games with you.
you can give the gift to your family members or friends.Please don't give it a guy who might be interested in you in the future.He deserves a new gift.
If you don't want to make a further fool of yourself in his eyes,stop calling him,emailing him and texting him.
I wish you all the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni'm not sure whether i'm into him or not.. but last nite i having a very good sleep..
i just think, if he really lost interest with me, why juz not he tell me directly.. at least we still can be friend right?
i'm not the type of girl that will force someone to like me! y dun juz he straight away tell me?! this guy acting so stupid!
i think the birthday gift i will just keep it and give to someone who i think worth to own it! what do u think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): Goodness! I think my answer was pretty clear.Delete his number.Block his number.No more texts.No more emails.You are acting needy and clingy.If a guy was acting with me like that ,I would find it a big turn off.Guys would run 10 miles if the girl is needy or clingy.
It takes some time to heal.But don't you love yourself?He is not replying you back.Have some ego.Please!.Don't even bother to think about him.
If I were you I would take the birthday gift and shove it.....Hmmm...in to the trash can.
Come on girl!This is not going to work at all.Let him go.
you need to develop a healthy self esteem.If you love someone would you hurt them?You are allowing him to hurt you.If you love yourself,you would say "I am not going to let him hurt me".Repeat 10 times."I am not going to call or email or text him".Repeat another 10 times.
Its up to you now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks bugs! Today I just act like normally I do, text him to wake him up. He replies me 2 hours later “morning pretty”. So I just text him back, “Are you ok? Cuz been few days I did not hear from you and no message from you. So, I just wanna check whether you ok or not. Take good care of yourself”. But then, there is no reply from him. I know this guy not worth for me to losing my sleep. But, you know, I just need time to adapt and forget. I brought him a birthday gift which I promise to do so. So, do you think I should give it to him? Or just left it in my closet? No idea to do with the gift…
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): No Guy I repeat no Guy in the world is worth losing your sleep for.
Develop a healthy self esteem.Do not worry about your body size etc.,
If a guy doesn't call you don't even bother to text him or call him back.
Show some Attitude girl!
Some men play mind games with girls.For them its just a game.
I suggest you remove him as your friend from facebook.Block his number.
Wouldn't it be so much more fun making him go bonkers?.
Someone somewhere is made for you.He is definitely not going to play mind games with you.Trust me.
All the best Dear!Keep us posted.
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reader, Anonny  +, writes (4 December 2008):
Join the club girl!! - This is one question that if us women knew the answer to - we would make a lot of money!!
Men I think can only answer this - but it is a lifelong problem of
man getting on with woman,
man dating woman
then man not ringing woman...!!!?
Best of luck! - Hope he will call soon!
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