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writes:There's a guy who takes care of my grandpa, and one day when we were visiting my grandpa I was alone in the room with my grandpa and the guy and when I got up to leave the dude was like NO DON'T GO NOW!! in a very very creepy whiny voice. I got scared and left and told my mom immediately, and stuck with her. I think he might try to rape me or something so I am REALLY scared!we haven't told my dad but my dad wants to visit my grandpa and grandma because my grandma is sick and also in a week or so there's a birthday and we have to go to my grandpa's! I'm really scared and I don't know how to tell me dad and I don't want to go there either! I am really really scared, how do I tell my dad??Please don't tell me to just go because I am really young and really really scared! I have no idea what to do and I want to forget about it all but I can't! I feel so alone and scared and this morning I woke up from a nightmare where the guy was trying to rape me in a public place, I was fighting against him and I saw a girl I know and yelled her name but she didn't hear me. Then I screamed "what do you want" at the guy and he said, "something dirty" and I got so scared I woke up right then.I am really really scared what do I do?!?? Reply to this Question
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (5 December 2008):
 It looks like from your post that you are really terrified from this guy. In that case you must tell your dad exactly why you are scared and tell him that you don't want to be left alone with that guy that scares you. I do not know for a fact if your reasons for being so scared are valid however if you feel that way then you should definitly not be around him alone in any circumstances. Go and tell other members of the family about this story. He could be a pedophile. A pedophile is somebody that is sexually attracted to children. His way of insisting that you should have stayed is bizzare. STAY CLEAR OF HIM!!!. Take care!.
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 If this man is creepy its possible he might not be taking very good care of your grandpa too. Stealing? Abusive? Tell your dad about this. He might really want to find someone else!
Loving fathers will always protect their children!
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reader, petina1  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 Let your dad know that the guy over there scares you and please don't leave him on your own at any time while he is there. If your dad takes it too lightly then you will have to tell your mum again and stress to them that you are serious. If all else fails is there a family friend who you can talk to who will convey how serious this is as an adult talking to adults. Don't give up on it there is always a way if you keep at it. Dads are usually good anyway in protecting their little girls. You could show your dad what you have wrote to the aunts to show him how scared you really are. hope this helps.
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reader, fourteengirl +, writes (4 December 2008):
im young as well so i understand how you feel. you said you told your mum, what did she say? seriously, this isnt going to help much but you HAVE to tell your dad, that way he will keep an eye on you. if you have to go, keep with your mum or someone else all the time. start the conversation talking about your grandpa and then move onto the carer. please try. i hope this helps and good luck x
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