A
male
age
30-35,
*scalaya
writes:I'm having extreme difficulty climaxing during sex; which i feel is for the most part related to habitual masturbation when i was younger, and rather frisky if i do say so myself.I've been really open with this to friends/family (I don't mean to say i just pop off about it all the time, but i'm not ashamed of it per-se) and i wasn't raised in religious/strict family etc. My girlfriend tries to be as understanding as possible, but I'm sure a lot of you ladies know how it may feel for her, and you men who've been through it.What can I do to help remedy the situation, through research it seems these "Herbal," and medicinal methods don't really work unless prescribed to you specifically by a doctor. So what CAN I do to fix it that is a method that's known to work? Reply to this Question
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reader, tux +, writes (4 December 2008):
 The only advice to give you is to see a doctor about it. Beyond that, try different things or different positions.. Another thing to try is, not to think about it too much and just let it happen..
ON a personal level, I wish I had this problem.. But I know it can be taxing on girls if you can never climax because they want to make you reach.. Personally, I could care less if i did as long as she did... but that's just me..
But you can try seeing a doctor, different positions, or just stop thinking about it so much and just enjoy the moment.
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