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Am I falling out of love?

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Question - (4 December 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi Everyone

I've been with my bf for 9 months now, i really love/d him (i'm not sure anymore).

I couldnt go for a day without seeing him or calling him, i did that every single day but. Even I, myself thought i'm too emotionally dependent on him and i'm being needy and even tried to stop calling everytime but i would get these urges and call anyway.

In the past week or 2 i've gone for more than a day without calling him, But i still think about him all the time. Last weekend i spent the weekend with him since my parents were away(i'm not allowed to sleep out), i should've been thrilled but i wasn't. We made love, it was amazing and after that we cuddled and just talked. he fell asleep before me, i watched him sleeping so peacefully but felt no emotion AT ALL! I don't get the urges to call anymore, i don't mind if i don't see him for a couple of days, It's been two days now and im not missing him but he's always on my mind and he calls me, he didn't yesterday and i also didn't, so we didn't talk yesterday.

Whats happening, am i falling out of love? Am i too comfortable with the relationship now? I'm not sure of what i'm feeling right now.

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