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*ylese420
writes:I am a 21 year old female and i have two kids... 16 month old twins.... I know congrats. but i have some concerns because when i found out i was pregnant with my boys, and all threw my pregnancy, and even now i have no desire or interest in having sex at all... No pleasure nothing. Is something wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): It's very normal to feel the way you are feeling. You are probably dead tired after taking care of your babies all day and everything else you have to do in a day. Your sex drive should return. I had two kids at 21 too. They weren't twins but only a year apart. It wasn't easy. I felt like a kid trying to raise kids!
Try to spice up your sex life. Use your imagination...sexy outfits, sex-toys, romance...whatever turns you both on. Try some self-exploration too. When the twins are sleeping and you are home alone. Take a hot bath and fantasize about sexy things. Try to "please yourself" Men do it all the time...we can do it too! And it really does help!
Good Luck with the babies and oh, yes...Congratulations!
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