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writes:My best freind has been hiting on my girlfreind an making sexual comments towrds her. she complained to me bout it and i don like it when he does (he does it right in front of me) i told him to knock it off and he got totaly pissed at me, what should i do.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (4 December 2008):
 You know, before me and my husband got married, his best friend used to hit on me. They ended up not being friends ne more. Tell him to back off. If he doesn't, end the friendship.
Now that we are married, he and his friend are friends again.
I think he is angry at me for what I did, as in marrying my bf, LOL, but tough shit.
Best wishes,
Amanda
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reader, Teacake +, writes (4 December 2008):
 He doesn't sound like much of a friend. Perhaps jealous. There seems to come a time when friendships need to be kept separate. Triangle energy is always drama and ruins relationships. Keep him away from your girlfriend. If you love her, stand by her and ditch the guy. He sounds like he is trying to make trouble. A real friend would respect your privacy and your girlfriend.
He has no right to make any comments. Tell him to get a life and to get it somewhere other than your privacy.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (4 December 2008):
 Stand your ground. He's being inappropriate and inconsiderate and quite frankly rude. Let him be pissed off at you. He sounds like a jerk to me and who needs friends who see no problem with making moves on their friend's girlfriends? Yuck yuck yuck, he has 'user' and 'loser' tendencies. If he can't see that what he did is just plain wrong, then he's going to live a long and lonely life.
One more thing, it is okay for your girlfriend to tell him off too. She's a big girl and should be able to stand up to him herself, I hope. And I do hope that she has not been exaggerating for effect with you.
Keep your integrity in all things. Good luck.
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