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writes:hi really hope there is someone who can advise me. I met a guy about a year ago online and have met up a couple of times since. We both work shifts and find it hard to meet especially as we also live a good few hours drive away. The second time we met things got quite heated and we tried having sex. It didn't work, partly because i was too nervous. Anyway we have kept in contact since every other day and he has told me numerous times he wants me as his girlfriend and wants us to be intimate. I'm not sure what to do because in the back of my head is he just wants sex and then he'll go but then on the other hand why would he hang around so long if thats all he wants. He knows i'm nervous and has told me that he doesn't just want the sex, he wants us to be together.Please help as i'm so confused Reply to this Question
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 What I have come to find very interesting is how many people in your country are having problems.
Here in the US, your country has a big reputation for being the most sexually open of all the world. The most relaxed about casual sex and that people are just screwing their brains out as if having a nice cup of tea!
This man is obviously very attracted to you, but for him to say he wants you as his girlfriend having met up with him only a couple of times, seems a bit strange. Do you talk on a regular basis?
I would certainly go out with him a few more times before having sex. Also, living so far apart is going to make things very difficult. Trust your instincts.
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